My girlfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. I have put a lot of effort into it, and I've don't everything I can to make it work. The other night things got way too ridiculous when she got upset that I'm going to my moms this weekend bc it's my moms birthday. She can't go bc she has to work all weekend. She told me that I need to make a decision whether or not we are going to stick things out and make them work. I want to leave her so bad, but now all she's doing is making me feel so guilty. I stayed at my aunts last night just so that I could get away from her, and she blew my phone up the whole time I was gone, begging for another chance. I just don't know how to end it for good without her flipping out and having a meltdown. *sigh*
Ag0405 Ag0405
26-30, F
2 Responses Aug 21, 2014

I found this that seems to help people with advice. I just thought I should tell people.

Well that not going to happen !!!! She is a drama queen!! I would run!!

Look I could see it if you was going to see a old girlfriend. But it's your moms birthday!! She a control freck!!
That not a good thing!! When you put a ring on that finger she will only get worse!!

This is how we do it!! If my husband wants to see his parents he goes if I want to see mine I go!! We trust each other !! Sounds like she has trust issues!! They aren't going to get better!! Only worse!! Say you have to go on a business trip!! She will call you all the time and if you miss one call you are going to pay!! Do you TRUELY want to live that way??????

The best thing is to be honest and tell her that you can't handle the drama !! That since she can't trust you then you need to let her go her way and you your way!!