My Mom Treats All Her Kids Like 's' And Cries If We Bring Up The Fact It's Jacked

My mom stole my identity and never repayed me. She also allowed my sis who committed suicide to be molested her entire childhood because she wanted to be married to this abusive freak. She also does little things here and there like run up her other kids's library card bills and put abandoned cars in their names like she did to my brothers. Still, my siblings talk to her and stuff because their identity wasn't stolen by her so they choose to keep her in their life and bite their tongue.

Because if you say anything, she'll get offended or cry. She has an incredible amount of pride and won't say it specifically but obviously feels entitled to screw us over like we're her property or something.

I'm all for honoring a person who honors you but I DO NOT feel I should honor her.

It's hard because people look at me like there's something wrong with me... "You don't talk to your mother? YOU FILED APOLICE REPORT AGAINST YOUR OWN MOM!?!?"

Yes! I did! She's never given two cents about me. Why should I have to sacrifice myself for her?

so, I didn't. I wiped my hands clean of her. And honestly, in many ways, I feel much better And I was able to buy a car because I filed the police report and it's given me a chance at success. t

I didn't realize how hard it was on my self-concept to keep her in my life although she'd always shown through actions that my needs, wants, EXISTANCE in other words, don't matter and are upsetting to hear about so don't bring it up. This hurt me. Deeply. Now, it's time to heal.

It's still painful though because we all want things to work out and to be treated great by people and loved but life just is not like that.

Everything with it's ups and downs, I guess...