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I don't know why, but I, like many women, don't have a giant chest. The fact is that I barely have anything at all - I'm an AA, or what you would call less than a size A. Even when I wear AA I don't exactly 'fill out' the bra. During the beginning of puberty I was really self-conscious about it, to the point where I didn't feel comfortable changing around others because I felt like I would be mocked for looking 'immature' or more like a man than a woman.

Right now, I live in Japan. Asia is one of those places presumably notorious for women having small chests, but having been to several all-nude hot springs, I've discovered that I'm amongst the flattest of the 100 or 150 women I encounter.

Although I have an attractive face - and a perfectly flat stomach; my other proportions are more than desirable - it's still hard for me to feel sexy about myself, and it's something I've having to learn to do more and more each day.
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Speaking as a guy here...I personally love small boobs. I've dated girls who have A cups to girls who have absolutely nothing but nipples and I love that. Girls with tiny boobs or no boobs at all are incredibly sexy. Please do not ruin your gorgeous bodies with fakery

At least you have an attractive face. I'm AA cup (or maybe even less) and my chest is not proportionate to the rest of my body...And in MY opinion, I do not have an attractive face. Count your blessings.

Me too. I'm like a 34AAA or AAAA. Nothing but puffy, poky nipples. :'-( Everything else about me is attractive; nice butt and legs, slender waist, pretty face ... but my flat chest is so obviously out of proportion. I'd give anything to be an A cup.

I have been attracted to many women with all sizes of breasts and I have found over a pretty full life that the ladies with the smaller boobs are the most loving, erotic, and interesting. This is just my personal experience, and don't get me wrong I love them all, but if I had a choice you ladies with small breasts would be my choice. As far as getting an implant for me it is usually a turn off, the more natural the better.

I have been attracted to many women with all sizes of breasts and I have found over a pretty full life that the ladies with the smaller boobs are the most loving, erotic, and interesting. This is just my personal experience, and don't get me wrong I love them all, but if I had a choice you ladies with small breasts would be my choice. As far as getting an implant for me it is usually a turn off, the more natural the better.

Hey, I'm not even an AA. You have more than me. :( And I have a generous butt and thighs. At least you're proportionate.

Although I am male I can relate to your story. Since puberty and I noticed compared to other boys I was lacking in a certain department, I have been petrified about having to disrobe. Interestingly, I would love to meet a very petite flat chested woman as I find them very sexy. Also, we may have something in common as far as life experiences is concerned. However, I can not see this happening as size it seems is important and what I lack in one department I have an abundance in another. How I wish us humans were not so hung up about body image it would make life so much simpler.

Sexy is also about attitude and how you feel about yourself. Someone who thinks they are sexy and acts like they are sexy will been seen as sexy. But I understand with the way this country is so image conscience one would group up worried about themselves if they are not as big as others. It happens with men too.<br />
If someone does not like you because of your shest then they are very shallow.

Wow. You might not love the size of your breasts, but I do! Don't worry about trying to compete with other women -- you are beautiful in your own right and many men are attracted to a woman like you.

Oh, if only I could find one of you flat chested women who would also be sufficiently attracted to me that we could have a relationship.<br />
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I'm not alone though. There are thousands of guys who prefer women with small breasts. But obviously there is some sort of severe disconnect going on in this world that keeps small breasted women from finding men who absolutely adore the cuteness of a small set of breasts. <br />
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Of course, breasts should not be the prime motivator in a relationship, but it should never be the cause of not having a satisfying relationship.

the reality is that confident small breasted women have no problem at all,damn theyre hot.

Girl Friend. It is NOT how big the boobs are. It's how you use them.

i'm in the same boat just about. i'm very petite woman whose small-chested and I'm tryin so hard to gain weight to get some fat in these puppies here, lol. i just use humor to help me cope and what not. i wish i more to offer my boyfriend though :( i'm currently underweight which is probably a main factor as to why i'm kinda small chested here. damn you stupid body! damn you! just absorb the fat!!! rawr! everyone else in my family is huge....chest wise and umm body wise.(yes, my family is very fat)

"Although I have an attractive face - and a perfectly flat stomach; my other proportions are more than desirable - it's still hard for me to feel sexy about myself, and it's something I've having to learn to do more and more each day."<br />
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I can completely relate to you because I am also lucky in other areas. However, it's still hard to exert that full confidence when you're constantly self conscious about your breast size. <br />
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My roommate recently studied abroad in Japan, and she told me about the hot springs. The first thought that came to my head was HELL NO, because I could not bare the thought of being the odd one out with not breast.<br />
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I worry a lot about situations such as hot springs in Japan, intimacy, and occasions that requires either a strapless, or a swimsuit. There is only so much a padded bra can do... and you kind of need to be fully dressed for that.

i wish i could have an opportunity to make you feel apreciated.

i completely understand how u feel. i am less than A, too. but i have horrible acne to go along with it! AND large hips/butt. I feel like a triangle! consider yourself lucky, in a way. it could always be worse.

same here.... only it's worse because i'm slightly overweight and big-boned. i do NOT have a flat belly (quite the contrary) but for some reason my chest never got the extra weight, unlike my flab-dominal area. SEcondly, being big-boned means i have the shoulders of a football pla<x>yer, not to mention a BROAD rib cage: in other words, "They" are far apart, making bra-buying a nightmare and cleavage close to an impossibility. so see, you don't have it THAT bad!

I have flat chest too... and I have learnt to adapt to this over the years. I'm OK with it now.

While there's nothing funny about being self-concious about our own body image, I DID find your title to this story quite humorous! :) That humor can go a long way in helping you ? adjust, adapt, cope, whatever) with this situation. I'm sure someone out there appreciates you for more than your chest size! ;)