Why is it difficult for me to make and keep my friends?

I have accumulated sufficient social knowledge and experience to be able to make a good judgement over social issues. To put it simply, my social skill should be pretty good. However, i find it hard to engage with my friends at a deeper level.

I am speculating that interpersonal communication skill is separate from the ability to make, maintain and deepen friendship.

There are, perhaps, certain factors that influences this problem. One of the main factor is my unusual personality and mindset. It is very hard to meet like minded people who share synergistic if not common interest. The next factor is that i am simply haven't find the people that i would like to have as friends. I am the type of person that hates wasting my time meaninglessly; i am not fond of investing my time for people i am not interested in. Lastly, perhaps i simply have a busy life. There are so many things i have to do that i don't have time for friendship things.

Hang on a minute... maybe i can do it. I just am not willing to invest time to maintain the friendship.
spinningtime7 spinningtime7
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Aug 16, 2014