Taken From Under Me

Imagine waking up one day and being told that your husband will be not only out of touch but out of country for about three years. After exactly 6 months of marriage, this is my experience. He has never done anything to hurt me and this is the only thing that he has done to put a frown on my face. This is someone that I get along with who I share all my experiences with and now he is no longer here. I am mad that he wasnt open about what his past was about because it is affecting my future. All I do now is take it one day at a time and work through my hurt. Every time I think about it I simply shake my head because I guess part of me is still in utter disbelief.

chickyT chickyT
36-40, F
4 Responses May 7, 2010

My heart goes out to you! Im going through the same thing! Omg its so hard, all I do is cry all the time! But reading these inspiring stories truly is helping me and lifing my spirits! May god bless you!

Reading ur story makes me feel stronger,cuz i am almost in the same situation...

hang in there, as each day passes it does get easier, my husband is in there for a while worst case 4 years, i am lonely too and way behind on bills, just take it one day at a time its all you can do

This has got to be quite a shock. You are doing right taking one day at a time. It's all we have.