My Fiance Is In Jail For An Unknown Amount Of Time
So I'm unsure what to think at this point. My fiance and I have been together since 2/25/12. Yeah I know a short time to be engaged. Well when we first started talking, he told me that he worked at a rehab facility that I later found out he was checked in to. I figured well I can understand being ashamed of being an addict/alcoholic so I didn't think much of it and told him that I wouldn't run that easy. Well we started spending every possible moment together, went to the beach together in March, and after Easter, we decided that if we were going to be together all the time, and my son started calling him Daddy Bear, we might as well live together. So he and I moved in with my sister and he was working. We decided that since he didn't have a driver's license (because of a felony dui with great bodily injury in December) So he proposed on April 28 and I was overjoyed. I of course said yes and we immediately decided we were going to get married soon. Well, on June 14th of this year the cops showed up at his work and surrounded him like he was a serious criminal. I was a little confused because I had no idea what was going on. Well since then I found out that he was not only on probation (which is no big deal) , had violated his probation with an assault and battery in December - I knew about the a&b but not the violation of course - then didn't show up for court 3 times and was sitting on a violation of probation, 9 counts of failure to appear for probation revocation, and 3 bench warrants. He told me that he had gone to court on March 30 and they gave him no jail time, 1500 in fines, and suspended his license for 6 months. He made all of that up. Then yesterday I found out from his ex that he was still seeing her when we started dating in February and he was telling her he loved her up until the day before we left for the beach. I don't know who to believe. He is of course telling me that isn't true...she says it is. She really has nothing to gain or lose from it but at the same time I know there are vindictive people out there. My first instinct was to call it quits but I went to see him this morning and he hit his knees telling me that he did not do that and that he loved me. I don't want to leave him in his greatest time of need but at the same time, I don't want to waste 2 years (that is what we have heard as an estimate from every atty we have talked to for how long he'll be gone) and him come out to lie or cheat, then again I don't want to let this go and regret it.