Help Dont Know What To Do

i been approved to have the adjustable lab band. my family is telling not to do it saying that it will hurt me like i will die if i do it. my brothers friend just had the same surgery and everyone is very happy that he did it and are supporting him but they wont me. any idea on what i should do? i now weigh 320 lbs. please any advice is welcomed.

thanks
karen
misty10 misty10
26-30
Jan 7, 2013