Learning Disability And Me

I was diagnosed with a learning disabilty when I was five ( a.d.d and dyslexia ) also language based learning disabilty. I am 41 years of age now, and through a private school when I was younger and a lot of extra help, I foolishly thought i had this behind me.
After my first wife left me a couple years ago, I noticd my son was beginning to have the same problems as I did when I was a child but really did not know where to start to get him tested. It was not until my second wife that i was really brought to light about the problem that I have. We have been having our fights and she has told me of an avenue to pursue for my son and for myself but in hindsight......................she is the one I am having the most problems with.

You see, my wife and my stepson are...........at most the other end of the spectrum when it comes to thinking and they really can't see why or in my opinion care what we think the way we do. I am not sure if they think that this disabilty can be cured by medicine or it can just go away.

Not only is she upset ( walking on eggshells for fear I will yell at her out of being defensive ) but I am too becasue in my mind she will never give me or my son a fair shot. I never feel like I do anything right according to her and i can never explain to her that this is who I am. We are about to have our first child together as a couple and to me that is the only reason that we stay together and I don't want that. I just want to be loved for who my son and I are. What can I do. How can I tell her that she will listen to me. We have been married for 10 months and I am at my witts end. I don't think she will ever accept me fir me
frescue25 frescue25
41-45
Jan 8, 2013