Sexual turn offs, being bitched out for bragging about my hubs and dealing with ep crazies. Does it get any better then this? :O

Aww thanks....You just made an awesome point yourself! That being that folks really need to let others know what their "contents" are....We buy food and all the ingredients are list!! We should offer up at least this much to our partners!! :)

Aww thanks vinni....Yup, finding the right match is everything and once you find him ya gotta hang on tight!! :)

smiles yes you do lol

Awww thanks for stopping by.bb... No test..just me and my thoughts....Gosh knows no test has ever lived in my poor brain for more then 10 minutes after I studied or took one myself!! "D

well the ideals were beautiful nonetheless as usual =)

aww thanks... :)

Awww, but you're a sweety J!! :)

Why thank you, fair lady :) Maybe I'm too much of a gentleman to suggest that I might not be shy in particular intimate situations in which shyness and prudishness is most ungentlemanly; maybe not :))

I didn't..not for one second think you were...A lot of folks can be very quiet and sort of subdued during the day but become total wild horses in bed......I bet you're a total stallion when and where it counts! ;)

I'll just blush and say no more :)

I totally love it when I make you blush!! :)

Aww thanks! :)

How cool is that!! Thanks Caramel!! ♥ I just wish I could borrow a couple shades of tan from you....Gosh I am ghosty pale right now...Darn winter anyway... :O

LOL I have enough tan for the both of us so I will totally share! No reason for you to be ghostly pale during the winter!

I would sooooo totally take you up on that!! Hubs has this beautiful bronzey/brown tan toned skin all year long and I am sooo jealous!! Next to him I look like a glass of milk.... :( with not one drop of chocolate.... :((((

Aww thanks....Yup, communication is HUGE in any relationship!

So true...I think this would be just as hard on a man as a woman...Thanks for stopping by and reading! :)

How AWESOME is that!! I love it when a bunch of us all see things so much the same way!!

Aww thanks missy...... hugs...Yup, as much as I hate to think that folks are jealous...this one totally is..... If he spent some more time fixing what is screwed up in his own life and less bugging happy folks he might end up in a way better place.

Also- I'm so sad that this story didn't show up on my feed! EP flagged it as adult content and I only saw it by looking at your profile.:(
Wonder what other goodies they flag "for me."

Aww thanks lohla...unintelligent is a real turn off too...

If you check your settings you can click on allowing mature stories to go into your feeds.

Thank you! I clicked it so I hope that works! :)

It should!! Now you get to read all the naughty stuff!! ;)

He totally did...and now he want's to cry unfair cause hubs told him straight off what he thought. THAT'S MY AWESOME HUBS No passive aggressive bullshit in that man...I AM TOTALLY BRAGGING AGAIN TOO! CopperCoil comes in all snide and snotty and calls us hypocrites for telling his lame *** off..... He was the one talking about "beasts" I was just bragging about what a great man I'm married too!!! Coppercoil TOTALLY showed us all why I am married to and bragging about a guy like K and NOT a loser like him.

unflippingbelievable. hit the block button.

Next thing he'll write 10 mean stories about hubs and I cause that is what these hateful peeps are best at.....and they wonder why they end up alone and miserable....

Aww thanks john.... :)

Always my pleasure....

Aww thanks...I have been here for 2 years now ducking the shots folks sometimes send in my direction and have continued to write what I want. That will never change.... I can't fix the world's problems or the folks who create them but I can make sure they don't stop me from being me.

You take more shots than a gun range!

The world needs more light and positivity; I love how you keep your cheer despite it all. Honestly... I don't know how you do it... I wish I could wave a magic wand and put up a force field for you for just a day!

Aww thanks RR...... ♥I think going thru some of this crap just makes me happier and stronger....Folks are great at letting me see just why being me is the only way for me to be....That almost bordered on being poetic!! See, they inspire me!! :D

Aww thanks RR..hugs and hugs....Natural synchronicity....I like the sound of that! :)

*cracking up*

i just saw yur status and figured sumthin was up. good shot baby girl. you got you a boy with a case of them >>green balls<< bustin on ya in here. Ballzy nuff to speak up but so damm jealous he went an advertised what a loser thinks. this site just dont get no bettern this! :0] oh wait>>i didnt scope out mah questions yet >:~/

Myaah, I'm glad you were amused by it but I hate to jump on the jealous bandwagon. People are way more complex then that sometimes, but being I don't know what is going on in a person the best I can do is keep my own slice of ep as happy as possible and trust that others will sort thru their own stuff when they feel like it. :)

hugs Laff's...:)

he is the greatest though!

Copper....You need to have some "avoid sierra time" in the other corner cause most of what I write is a "MY HUBS IS THE BEST FEST" because he totally is...for me!!

I figure there are more then ENOUGH folks being all depressed, hateful, cranky, bitter, mad at, or cheating on their partner.....I like that I can throw some love in the mix. I have had folks tell me they totally vomit when they read my posts and I always tell them...in a really patient and understanding sorta way that they can totally avoid reading me..but I think a few of them are bulimics and they are just using me for their own purposes... :D

I do like your idea for that group tho!! *Runs off to make it!* :D

I think Mr Sierra needs to run courses for hubbies that could do with a few pointers.....

Lol.. no need to avoid you. I am a bitter pill to be sure. For all that sweet sometimes I feel the need to be the lemon, so as to help make the lemonade.

Kat.. don't encourage her.

CopperCoil, I understand "bitter pills" I get hit with more then a few in here.... I come in on a lot of mornings to find that blue heads have made one mean comment after the other on my stories and most of the time I just delete them and block the blue head and never say boo about it.
You at least used your own account. I've seen you around for a long time and you have been NICE! I was a little surprised you decided to make lemonade on my post. I just needed to say what I said because I do what I do on ep and enjoy doing it. The ONLY reason hubs and I first came on ep was to do just what we're doing have some fun together. If we ever decide that is not possible anymore we'll both leave. I keep to myself in here. I never go around to all the ******, angry, fighting or whining posts I don't like and tell folks to knock it off so in turn I don't let folks come on my stories and take digs at me. I honestly do believe in the quote I keep on my profile, "Live and let live"
But on a more cheerful note.....if I ever need a good recipe for lemonade....I'll check with you first!! :D

people who ooze out of the woodwork to "taint" a positive statement, smile, laugh, or whatever are generally just miserable jealous people. present company included. yes you can go around blocking those pesky blue heads, and being surprised when one of your usually friendly cohorts suddenly vomit biting words on your new dress, but it does nothing to effect the negativity that is as much a part of life as the positivity you seek to exclusively surround yourself with. yes you can post whatever you like on your stories, that is certainly what ep is all about. though little red ridding hood is destined to forever be at harassed by the wolf. i am not the wolf, i am but a single claw of a much greater whole. most days i am retracted and the paw is soft, but ever now and again.. well, my apologies.

Copper Coil, I accept the apology. No good reason not to,

I would like to explain something tho. I know all about wolves at the door and the darker side of life. I was raised with a genuine psychopath for a sister, diagnosed and all. Nothing like having sis who wants you dead to teach you a few lessons on how much things can suck. But past all the problems with her I can say she taught me a few good lessons too. I know how to avoid and stay under the radar of folks who run around with that claw extended but when I can't dodge the crap any more...I know how to stand up and speak for myself.

You're comment did just what so many angry, sad, wolf-like folks vomiting mean words do....You totally tried to trivialized my approach to life and ep. Writing snide remarks about new dresses and being little red riding hood doesn't change the fact that being happy takes a lot of effort. Maybe a LOT more effort then the miserable folks are willing to invest in their own lives. See, I don't waste my time going around moaning about my personal woes or failures. I WORK at enjoying the good things and success I WORK for and have.

Negative people bask in the glow of thinking that people who are happy and praise others are in some way a pile of fluff and that just could not be further from the truth. Happy people have to work 10x's harder to be that way then some negative moaner does... to keep their head planted in their *** while singing a depressing blues number, non stop.

You think my being honest about how awesome my hubs is...is bragging, then you wander thru and brag about your claws and paws coming out to try and **** in my cornflakes now and then......Don't get me wrong, I'm not mad. this strikes me as sort of funny... :D I say we are at a behavioral impasse.... My words about my hubs makes him, me and others happy and your words keep you miserable. I guess we both end up with what we want at the end of the day and that's fine! We all make choices that make our lives what they are. YaYY for the difference between us!

I never try to deny that negativity exists in my world. I don't try to be unrealistic and surround myself with unicorns and jelly beans all the time either... I just have a very different attitude and approach in handling life then you and I personally think that ROCKS!! If that seems like bragging...rest assured.... it totally was!! :D

Sierra--
Bravo--my love.
This response is--
utterly perfect--

CopperCoil's--
rather proud--
barrage of misanthropic drivel
merely highlights--
how these individuals--
seek out and maintain their misery.
It frequently appears--
to become a rather dedicated goal--
for some of them.

I am always delighted with your words of praise for me.
I--in turn--
equally enjoy--
sharing the same with you--
both on EP and in our lives together.
I believe some would consider this a--
healthy relationship.
Perhaps that will be construed as boasting as well--
and perhaps it is.
So be it.
I also enjoy the fact that I inspire such a lovely young woman--
to feel this way--
as well as to--
desire giving voice to that praise.
I would far rather you be accused of boasting our happiness--
then listing my flaws.

Onto:
CopperCoil--
I noticed you freely admitted to being--
bitter--
miserable--
jealous--
Then--
you went onto metaphorically compare yourself to being a--
and I quote--
"i am not the wolf, i am but a single claw of a much greater whole. "
I equate that to your considering yourself to be--
no more then--
a singular--
and quite insignificant--
growth--
on the fabric of society--
With that opinion--
of self--
it comes as no surprise--
that you present yourself--
as quite the--
floundering clod--
within my wife's very cheerful posting.
The sad part is--
you seem rather proud of it.
By all means--do enjoy.
But kindly refrain from cluttering Sierra's compositions with it again.

As a brief aside--
Hiding behind a--
claim to tease--
or an insincere apology--
surrounded by passive aggressive prattle--
delivered--
via snide sarcasm
merely makes what is already distasteful--
worse.
Perhaps that was your intent.
If your ultimate goal is to appear as a--
negative bore--
I must offer you praise--
as well--
for a job--
well done.

Sierra, I respect the work it takes to be a happy little bundle of sunshine. You do just that and I enjoy the dose of sunshine your happiness in life and with your husband brings. Be who you are, it's the only way to be!

Looking4my wife, it is always a pleasure to read your responses to your lovely wife. Your devotion and love for her is always apparant and wonderful to read. I have just become a recent friend of sierra's but before she (bravely) friended me, I would pop over to her page occassionally to get a fix of positiveness, unicorns and jelly beans that she shares so abudantly with EP. I admire you both, thanks for setting a great example of what a happy marriage looks like. It is sorely needed around here!

I am going to chime in and offer "ditto thoughts" on what Michelle said. As you both know I am currently up to my ears in anger and life changing, failed marriage agony. Reading yours and K's words and thoughts about one another is something that offers me hope in an otherwise bleak time. Please do keep it up and even accelerate the praise for each other. I personally want to do the work that might place me in shoes very similar to the ones K now wears. I can use you two as a map for getting there. I want a partner I can be accused of bragging about!

Looking4, Aww thanks. I am going to write 10X's more braggy stories about you now!! :D If you GOT IT..I might just as well FLAUNT IT!! :D Yeahhh baby!!

Michelle, Aww thanks and hugs ♥ I will share my unicorns and jelly beans with you anytime. I even keep a box of chocolates stashed for special occasions!! :D

Paul, Thanks and hugs to you to. The fact that you even bother to read my silly stuff with what you are going thru amazes me, to think it makes you smile now and then is really nice... Heck..I might start doing Braggy posts on ALL my buddies now tooo! I can become the OFFICIAL EP BRAGGER!! :D I think you will easily find someone to sing your praises.....You got a lot to praise!!

such incredible irony here! Lol.. sie you handled yourself gracefully throughout then your Mr comes out and spews far more vitriol than I ever did here and you praise him for it and act all lovey. This is exactly what I am talking about. Just benieth the surface the beast lurks.

CopperCoil.....No this is where you're totally wrong. You came in acting like a mean kid at first and then ampted it up to being a snide *******....I came in and had my say and then hubs came after and had his say. Of course I'm gonna praise him you moron, HE'S THE ONE I BRAG ABOUT...REMEMBER!!! You're just all pissed off because he doesn't need to roam around this site acting like a loser condemning people for loving each other to get his rocks off.... I'm no hypocrite. I can't stand you and think you are EXACTLY what my hubs said. I can say it right out loud and not hide behind some phoney line off bullshit and pretend to be teasing! You brought the vitrol to my thread and now you want to cry unfair? If you don't want to be told what an ******* you are then maybe don't run around acting like one on other peoples stories. You had your snide say..... ON MY THREAD, notice neither of us have EVER bothered with YOU.... and we said what we had to say right back at you.... . You aren't my buddy and never have been so it shouldn't have been all that hard to avoid my posts and my bragging about my own husband....Jeez....I dare say you now own a top 10 spot for idiots I have encountered on EP......

Looking4....ahh....delightful.....

Insincerity is a particular pet peeve of mine. Thank you for succinctly putting my thoughts into words.

Copp... read Looking4's response more than once. Lots of insight there.

I think K ROCKS his reply to coppercoil!! He was direct and to the point and he never danced around the issue with lame metaphors or fake apologies...matter of fact hubs never said he was sorry for what he said.... cause he isn't! He meant what he said and said what he meant and said it in a really decent way....

I love the whole "beast" remark......I don't recall hubs or I ever once claiming to be all sweet and kind to lame jerks who mess up my stories.... We just don't need to lean on lame animal ideas to say what we mean. We can both dish it out honestly as the people we are.

NOTE TO ********....WE WILL NOT BE NICE TO YOU WHEN YOU COME ONTO MY THREADS AND ACT LIKE A TOTAL FUCKTARDS... There...no hypocrite in this lil girl.... I can say it right out load, own it and mean it...

Copper, I'd much rather read of Sierra showing her appreciation for her husband. It's a breath of fresh air with all the complaining about spouses that goes on here (me included). If anything it gives me hope that it does exist and that I too could have that one day. So, just because you don't have that, doesn't mean everyone else doesn't.

To be the top ten idiots you have encountered on this site is a true honor, one in which I shall always treasure and never be able to repay you for. Thank you.

What's so great about a site like EP is that everyone can freely share an opinion. This thread has really gone downhill, and it was just an innocent comment to begin with. I'm not so sure why everyone got so uppity and offended... Copper is right on point in really saying this isn't negative speaking... and I'm not sure why you began to downgrade him. The conversation started out very level headed until your husband came into the picture spewing off hatred. This isn't ******* lemonade on your story.. it's just a story that was written on ep that anyone can comment on... perhaps you should go write a story about how your husband turns you on now ;)

affinity, aww thanks...♥

CopperCoil, Awesome! See there really is a silver lining in every cloud! We all got something beneficial out of this. You said your bit, I said mine and hubs said his and now we can put this all to rest. It's gotten old for me and I for one have better things to do like... BRAG ABOUT MY HUBS some more! That is really one of my most fun reasons for being on ep anyway!
I will not say another word to... or about you on this thread or any other. I will also delete any comment you make on this thread or any other too, even if it's a nice comment, cause this lil beasty-girl was being real honest when I said I don't like you and don't want anything to do with you. I know we share a few buddies and if any of them object to what I or hubs have said in here... I would welcome them taking me out of their circle too....We ALL come to ep for our own reasons and should feel comfortable and happy with the friends we make and interact with.

Deee1930, I have no clue who you are. I totally do write stories about my hubs and have for the past 2 years. As a matter of fact that is how this whole yucky mess got started. I have no desire in explaining how this thread took this turn, ask Copper..... I think it's great that you like and support Copper! The awesome part is that he has his very own profile you can do that on! As far as my hubs goes...he only comes to my posts so it will be real easy for you to avoid him too by your staying off my threads as well.

ep is an awesome place to share opinions and the maker of any thread has the option to delete any folks or opinions they don't want to bother with on any story they post.....I LOVE how that works too!! :) Anything you post from this point on will be deleted too.

I now declare this lil thread... inside a thread.. to be closed and may it R.I.P!! The good thing for me is that this inspired me to make 2 groups about bragging about the people we love....Cause everyone can use some praise now and then and a WHOLE GROUP dedicated to holding... HUBS IS THE BEST-FESTS!! Jeez I flippin LOVE that!! ♥ ♥ ♥

*Have i mentioned how AWESOME my hubs is? NO!!! OMG..let me correct that oversight IMMEDIATELY!! He is the MOST....MOST..DOUBLE AND TRIPLE MOST AWESOME PERSON ALIVE!! ♥ ♥ ♥* There...*sigh* I feel better now! :D

Sie--
A very good choice--my love.
I will gladly abide by your wishes--
but first--
I do want to take the liberty of--
adding a few of my own--
closing thoughts.
As I only venture onto EP in the morning--
I miss the chance to respond--
during the daily exchanges.

CopperCoil--
I have witnessed both--
irony--
as well as--
hypocritical thoughts--
displayed on this topic--
Both coming from you.

Let us first examine--
Irony--
I find it highly ironic that you would first post this:
~~~~~
CopperCoil

I originally came here to find new and better ways to turn women off but it turned into a, i don't like this or that, but hubs is the best fest!!!! Um.. this should be in another group: why my hubs is greatest. You need some s.o. humble corner time.
~~~~~~~
Still later you posted this--
to another member--
~~~~~
CopperCoil

She just used this as a platform to brag kat
~~~~~
To which--
Sierra admitted--
in her usual charming fashion--
that indeed--
she does enjoy posting praise for and about myself.
The irony enters when you posted this:

CopperCoil

such incredible irony here! Lol.. sie you handled yourself gracefully throughout then your Mr comes out and spews far more vitriol than I ever did here and you praise him for it and act all lovey. This is exactly what I am talking about. Just benieth the surface the beast lurks.

~~~~~~~~
You seemed rather surprised that my wife would--
and I quote--
"act all lovey."
When that was exactly what she was doing--
when you entered this thread--
launching your--
senseless complaint.

Now--
onto--
Hypocritical content:

You posted this--
~~~~~
CopperCoil

people who ooze out of the woodwork to "taint" a positive statement, smile, laugh, or whatever are generally just miserable jealous people. present company included. yes you can go around blocking those pesky blue heads, and being surprised when one of your usually friendly cohorts suddenly vomit biting words on your new dress, but it does nothing to effect the negativity that is as much a part of life as the positivity you seek to exclusively surround yourself with. yes you can post whatever you like on your stories, that is certainly what ep is all about. though little red ridding hood is destined to forever be at harassed by the wolf. i am not the wolf, i am but a single claw of a much greater whole. most days i am retracted and the paw is soft, but ever now and again.. well, my apologies.
~~~~~
You--
CopperCoil--
felt quite content and within your rights to post--
snide vitriol--
condescending bullshit--
and then--
topped it all off with--
a passive aggressive apology.

I returned--
replying with my own observations.
Were my own words laced with the very same vitriol you yourself used?
Yes--indeed it was.
Did I perhaps use a firmer approach and avoid passive aggressive tactics?
Yes. Indeed I did.

Here is where your own--
hypocritical nature shines through--
~~~~~~~~~
CopperCoil

such incredible irony here! Lol.. sie you handled yourself gracefully throughout then your Mr comes out and spews far more vitriol than I ever did here and you praise him for it and act all lovey. This is exactly what I am talking about. Just benieth the surface the beast lurks.

~~~~~

You--
had the idiotic nerve--
to then cry like a school girl--
because I confronted you--
on my wife's post--
concerning--
your crass behavior.
That--
CopperCoil--
is a most impressive--
example of--
hypocrisy--

It is always sad--
yet very telling--
when a man can dish out crass behavior--
to a cheerful and loving woman--
and then cannot deal with the consequences--
when another man lends a fair defense--
I detest cowards.

Your fixation with:
wolves--
claws--
retracted--
or the--
single one--
you identify yourself with--
as well as the mention of--
beasts lurking--
is rather disturbing.
You might want to have that checked into--

Please spare yourself further embarrassment--
with any response to this--
If Sie does not see fit to delete it--
I will.
You are quite--
dismissed.

I have my doubts as to whether you have the capacity to properly comprehend--
my points here--

**STANDING 0VATION** for hubs! You and like 20 other folks all picked up on the irony and hypocrite stuff!! I got some totally smart buddies besides my ROCKIN hubs!! ;) Good way to close it out K!!

Hubs might have a pretty acid tongue at times but he never pretends he doesn't. He never smoozes anybody in here. If folks treat him with respect he is a totally respectful man back but if someone starts crap he goes for it.... I ALWAYS stand with him too cause while he might have a wayyy different approach then me to this stuff.....He is NEVER wrong about folks in here....

I have decided to take this whole situation and roll it into AWESOME FUN!!
Check this out!! Bragging taken to the next level and I'm loving every darn moment of it! Hubs now has his very own group for holding....MY HUBS IS BEST-FESTS!! I think folks should roll these "Best-Fests" out for pets, friends, family, houses, cars and all their unicorns and jellybeans too!! ;D

http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Want-To-Hold-A-Myhubs-Is-Best-Fest/2987147

I plan on doing weekly stories telling our wacky history and bragging in the most shameless and unapologetic way possible all about my hubs... LOOKING4MYWIFE!! Yeah ROUGH GUY! I got it goin on for ya now!!

See.....Good things CAN and DO come out of yucky situations.....Life is all what you make of it!! :D

See how well that lil delete button works? :D

Sie--
Thank you--my love.
Your new postings are both--
utterly delightful!
I look forward to far more of your--
shameless bragging!
Indeed--
Life is what you make of it.

RedRubies--
Thank you kindly--
I too--
utterly detest--
insincerity--
as well as those who employ it--
to mask and detract from their--
passive-aggressive weaknesses.

She just used this as a platform to brag kat.

I KNOW WAHHHHHH SNIFFF LIFES SUCH A *****

Copper.... I hope you're joking cause otherwise you're just being sort of pathetic...Why shouldn't I BRAG about him..He's wonderful....Would it benefit anyone if I lied and said he wasn't? No...I don't think it would.... Plus..It's my own story and if I want to brag I can....If everyone else can *****, whine and complain.....where is the crime in me slinging praise at my own husband??????...on my own story.....

Aww thanks Kat!! ♥

he's a tease ;) xxx

i do tease indeed.

Hmm looked a bit like playing Devil's Advocate while stirring the pot to get an adverse reaction to me... but hey... what do I know?

Aww Paul, about the LAST thing you need to be thinkin on now is reading my stuff. You totally have enough on your own plate. K an me will be hangin out for a long time around these part!! I am lookin forward to the time when you get back on the happy track tho! I will be the first to come in and post a big ole giant YAYYYY when you meet the girl who treats you the way you deserve to be treated and she writes posts about it on ep!!! :)

Aww thanks ricki but as awesome as hubs is he still isn't perfect, none of us ever get that good!! But he is the right guy for me. I always admire the loyalty in your heart tho ricki.....No matter what your hubs does ....*or doesn't do* you do still love him....We are always finding all the ways we are alike...I still say it's a darn shame we aren't neighbors!!

But you know the darker side of me? I'm not an angel like you and had this somewhat internet affair. Nothing happened in reality but it was kinda adultery.

Aww ricki...I have learned a lot about what some folks go thru inside their marriages and how they cope with it and I don't see a lot of things as a "dark side" anymore so much as a person's way of coping with their own life in their own way..... Each person and situation is real different so I don't think we can put everybody in a group and label it as a bad thing....We peeps are wayyy too complicated to be generalized......

I'm no angel...... :D It you ever see me wearing a halo, just know I got a lil set of horns holding it up!! I have never cheated on hubs but if he were a different kind of man who is to say I wouldn't have? We just never know how we'd react if we were wearing some one elses shoes....

Thanks for your dear words Sierra! (Hug)

aww hugs ya right back...♥

Aww thanks sawyer....you are a sweetie!! :)

Oh Jeez.....I have a girl buddy married to a man who still has to call his mom 3 times a day!! Even when they go off for a romantic weekend and it is driving the poor girl bonkers! The guy is 36 too and it's not like the mom is disabled or alone or anything like that she just has total control over the guy. So yeah....that can be a BIG problem.... I LOVE my mom and dad tons and tons but I can head out for a romantic day with hubs and not have to "check in" with either of them. Close ROCKS but too close just seems a lil creepy!

indeed . . . his mom calls him every night . . . and yeah . . . creepy . . . 8~{

he's 44 years old for god sake . . . I love his folks . . . I really do . . . but my god . . . he soooo needs to be a man now . . . NOW please . . . hahahahaha . . . I NEED A MAN . . . lol . . . 8D

Oh jeez.......yup...same syndrome..... :O **Calling on a MAN for the lil Mermaid!!**

HAHAHAHAHAHA . . . . LMAO . . . indeed . . . 8D . . . oh wait . . . ;) . . . hahahaha . . .

myaah, some of those peeps might not have a "beer belly" but too much cortisol collected from being stressed out!! Did you know that 99% of girls will experience unwanted facial hair during their life? I just wanted to share this with ya tough girl!! :D You crack me right up. I swear... :O

Aww thanks rough guy!! I have plenty of body flaws, like being a lil on the bony side but when it's time to get dirty and have some fun...I don't even think of that!! Modesty.....who needs it!! :D Seriously.. I can be a total lil lady when I need to be but the rest of the time I'd rather be NAUGHTY!! :D I don't mind sex in the dark sometimes but I love it when I can see exactly what's going on too!! ;)

k it took you that much space to say cc's a hawt chick and prudes and downerdebs don't roll yur wheel? sorry dude i had to. i just HAD to. :0]

:D You just can't resist can ya myaah? :D

Thank you kindly myaah--
for that rather--
sufficient--
translation.
I am quite certain--
those speaking your native tongue--
hold earnest appreciation--
for your thoughtfulness. =D

Sie--
You do need to put on some weight--
slimness aside--
however--
you are a flawlessly--
delectable--
woman.

K, LOL @ what you said to myaah...you two just never learn with each other....I'll put on my ******** outfit and play ref pretty soon...Aww thanks for thinking I'm tasty!! :D

Awesome... That is one of the BEST ones to be strong in. Happy partners are usually "well read" ones!! :)

Thanks. Good Write Up on this thing that you wrote here.

aww thanks... :)

I agree, shy anywhere else can be very sweet but shy in bed never worked for me.

Thanks for reading faefaye. :)

I always enjoy your insights.

BZ That would be a HUGE issue for me too! I am far from prudish, I don't mind hearing that others do the share thing and enjoy it... but it's NOT for me or my hubs.... Hubs and I actually talked stuff like this out before we got married but I know a ton of folks who kept their fetish hidden and told a partner later just to have it break them up.... I'm sorry that this happened to you. It isn't uncommon for a person to try and turn something like this around and blame the other partner. Some fetish folks need to OVER validate their preferences. I have known a few folks who wants EVERYONE to see their fetish in the same way as they do. It's fine that they like what they do....but not everyone else will.....

It's good that you and your husband discussed your likes and dislikes beforehand. My ex did not. Personally, I have no judgement against people that are into sharing or any other fetish, however, I completely agree with what you say, that both partners should be upfront about their desires before marriage. Had he told me in the beginning, I would have broken up with him and freed him to find someone with compatible interests. By hiding the fetish from me, it only delayed the inevitable split....which, by then is complicated by shared property, possesions (thank goodness we never had kids) etc. If I could give a piece of advice to anyone who feels they must indulge a fetish in order to feel fulfilled, I'd say that it's important you are upfront about it from day 1, or you will set yourself for heart ache in the long run. Honesty is really the best policy.

Honesty is #1 in my book too. Great advice!!

Aww thanks exp!! :)

Yayy Jaggy!! I do think the compatibility issue just can't be overstressed in importance....All people change in certain ways over time and if you don't have the compatible factor in place couples can't flow along seeing and understanding their changes. Those changes can happen in AWESOME ways if both people are on the same page to start!! :)