Why do so many peoples sexual fantasies involve pain? I haven't had the experience, but it is curious to me. I have had women ask me to have sex with them, but never had one ask me to inflict pain on them.
PetiesGirl. Are they different or just a different degrees of the same. I know nothing about BDSM, but maybe they start with spanking. Anyway, I have no experience with either and never met a girl that wanted to be spanked or physically tortured to any degree.
What kind of pain are you talking about...the kind that is pretty severe - like BDSM pain? or are you talking about women who want to be spanked on their butts with your hands? These are two totally different things.