Lovers and Friends

I am 43 and have been separated for 3 years recently filing my divorce.  I have three young children.  Who I love and take great pride in.  I have just recently gotten to the point where I  have time for my self and friends.  I met a man in December 06 who I am very attracted to.  I feel we are both assets to each other.  I would like more but he is currently in a relationship (not married) that I just can't figure out.  This best way I know to describe how I feel -> "I only know how he makes me feel when I am with him."  He was very honest about his relationship when I met him.  So I have no reason to feel lied to.  I respect him and his choices.  But I have never been in a trifold relationship and I know its not right but we seem to give each other something that we need.  We do care about each other and the third person is much respected.

If there is anyone else out there that has experienced a story like this.  I would love to hear your story, suggestions, repsonse.  Please know that I do love and respect this man but at the same time he needs his space and I need my space and this allows for a comfortable situation.

What can we do to broaden this kind of relationship?



IbeLVnLuV2 IbeLVnLuV2
41-45, F
1 Response Jun 17, 2007

The only ways I can see to expand it are to ditch his current, or include them. The magic eight ball speaks.