I Have a Mean Sister
I have a very mean sister . My father bought a condo for my sister & I to share so that we both could afford a place to live. My father intended on helping me financially by letting me live here with my sister. (He recently gave her ownership of the property by the way). My sister is a year younger than myself. We were "friends" before we moved in together. My sister always has been a very private person and very controlling...I didn't know how bad she really was!
On my moving day I brought my best friend of 10 years, to this new home for moral support. My sister was very cold & distant & pulled my friend aside & began to tell him awful stories about my past just to be mean! The stories weren't even the whole truth! I couldn't believe my ears! All hurtful lies! I was in tears all day. I also have a mean father who also told his awful stories about me! I knew from that day on that my sister was mean.
Everyday now since that day, she has been at times physically abusive & verbally abusive, She is unbelievable! My sister uses fear, humiliation, verbal abuse, & constant criticism to try to control me. She is constantly berating & belittling me by intimidation. She tries to wear me down with her emotional abuse, insults, criticism & accusations. She wants to control my every action too. She has characterly assasinated me to all the neighbors here at the condo & to other family & relatives too. My sister berates, criticizes, excessively blames me using sarcasm & humiliation, name callling,& blowing my flaws way out of proportion.
I stay locked in my own bedroom whenever she is home just to avoid another confrontation. I'm always on edge waiting for the other shoe to drop. I remain hypervigilant, waiting for my sister's next outburst or change of mood. I believe my sister deliberately starts arguments to be in constant conflict with me. She likes to be angry.
Can anyone relate? Like I stated earlier, we were "friends" until she gave me the keys to the condo.
She ps beyond reasoning with. She is out of control. She will not accept my boundaries either. She gets right in my face when she yells at me. She akso has said that my needs & wants don't matter to her & that is exactly how she treats me...with no respect whatsoever. My mother & other 5 siblings won't have nothing to do with my sister because she's been cruel to them also.