I remember one night my husband asked me a question. He asked me if I was happy in our marraige. I wanted to be honest so I said no. I hoped it would open up a dialogue between us so we could figure out how to fix our problems but instead of talking to me he decided to yell and scream at me and he punched the glass kitchen table that we have. Glass flew everywhere and even on me. So when family members and friends would drop by after that night I would blame the broken table on the cats. This is pretty much a common occurance around here. How sad. If you have anger issues you really need to get some type of help because your behavior affects everyone around you.