I Really Want Kids In The Future But Pregnancy And Labour Scare Me Something Stupid...I am 25 and so shouldn't be feeling like this as most women my age are wanting babies.
I love babies and toddlers but the thought of being pregnant and giving birth scares me more then anything in the world.
I hate the thought of something growing inside me, the extreme tiredness, the sickness, the backache, the physical limitations etc. Then the actual giving birth part, hours of agony which you can't get away from. Pain that women who have given birth say is the most unbelievably and excruciating you can ever imagine.
I feel weird for not loving the idea of it all. I can't wait to have my own children but it's the pregnancy and labour I don't think I can go through. I don't know how women do it I really don't. I feel under pressure to get over this phobia as time goes so quick and I can't imagine a life without a child in it.
Jenni855 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 Apr 29, 2011