Example of a Psycho Exhusband
My exhusband every summer wants to change the days of our exchange of our kids to accommodate his work schedule. I asked him to email me what changes he is proposing and the length of time he would want this change to be in effect. This is typical of his type of response:
If you would like to come on Sunday around 5 pm you can pick them up then; of course I'll need your answer back in email form before Friday too make sure we won't have plans. If I don't receive an email then we will see you Monday at your work. (0650 hrs) Just in case you forgot WE (you & I) have joint custody of our boys so there was no reason for me to make proposal for you "to decide if you would accept it" everyone knows you were going to refuse it anyway just to fight or try to bait
me. Again, I'm not going to fight w/you, and for the record your dad and I understand each other and no one is going to cause problems between us because we don't have time for it. Oh I have a few questions for you. Why do you hate me so much? Why can't you get along with me is it a control thing like your mom? Have a good day
I could use an opinion here. Am I reading too much into this or is this guy really exploiting what he feels is control because we have "joint custody"? Since my ex has been known to falsely make claims of things I say or don't say, why is it unreasonable to ask for something in writing from him? Now if someone doesn't want to fight why would they then bring up stuff that has nothing to do with the topic at hand?