Every 4 Minutes A Rape Is Reported In South AfricaThere was an awareness campaign in South Africa this week. Every 4 minutes a ping could be heard on the radio, every ping signalled another rape being reported at a police station.
Only one in every 20 to 25 rapes get reported.
So technically every 20-25 seconds someone gets raped in south africa.
I understand there are a number of people on EP who have rape fantasies......
Somehow it does not come across as being cool to be raped. We refer to rape victims as survivors because that is what they are. A large percentage of women die as a result of the severe damage to their bodies.......and the cruel nature of the attack.
Having a rape fantasy would never make sense to me.....
under controlled conditions, allowing a man to be forceful and controlling the situation is different,.........it will never be rape.
I have never heard any of the survivors ever say "wow that was great, it has always been a fantasy and now i can finally tick that box and lets hope it happens again"