The other day we were shocked to learn that my husbands' cousin's husband killed himself after an argument he had with his wife. Apparently they had been having marital problems no one knew about. After the argument he just walked outside with his gun and shot himself in the head. Tragic. The saddest part is that the couple had three small children. At first I really couldn't understand why he would do something like. Then a few days later I got into an argument with my husband and in the middle of it I felt like I just wanted to just blow my head off. So maybe that was what it was like for him. Then I understood. Some days you just can't deal with your spouse anymore it's just becomes too much and some people just snap.