A Not So Secret Secret......

While many here know of my liaison with Tigerzback, very few in either of our real lives knew anything about us..or even that there was anything to know. In fact, no one knew until he told his wife he wanted a divorce.  Next, I told my husband.  Although we had agreed to divorce and live as if single months ago, he decided that he was not so okay with things..ie. my "affair" with Tiger.  Tiger's wife began to spread news of our "affair" all over the place.  We were trying to be discreet, for everyone else's benefit.  She emailed his son, his brother, and his daughter....spreading nasty lies. One of her favorites is that we met in a sex chat room.  The site she's talking about is EP.  That gives you an idea of how warped she has gotten.  Decrying us as depraved and sick....me as a "money grubbing redneck"..herself from south Georgia!!!!!  Everyone in  our real lives is now aware of our relationship..and it's depth, at least as much as their feeble emotions can understand.  All have called us crazy.  All say we deserve each other, and hope we crash and burn.  Both spouses are being totally unreasonable. She demanding to be supported to the tune of over $300,000..he reneging on the settlement we agreed on , and by which I've been abiding , in October. We both stand to lose everything we have.

Here is the secret....we don't ******* CARE!!!!!!!!!!!  If they think they can brow beat us into submission and giving up, they have another thing coming.  We are willing to make ANY sacrifice to be together.  All the bad feelings..all the tangible losses....all is gladly relinquished for the only thing that matters....Tiger and tgrsldy.....US........US!!!!!!!!!

**** 'EM ALL!!!!  WE ONLY WANT TO BE TOGETHER!!  NO MATTER HOW THE DIVORCES PROCEED OR NOT....WE WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WE WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I love you, Tiger!!!!!!!!!  We WILL get through this and be together...for all time!!!

ITIDYIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lonesurvivor lonesurvivor
56-60, F
1 Response Feb 8, 2010

My tgrsldy speaks boldly, and with truth...The woman who proclaims to all that she "always tells the truth" (my soon to be ex) is a slanderer and gossip that tells the world not that which is true, but what is true according to her gospel. she is a woman in pain and very jealous that she has lost her meal ticket (me) and may actually have to go back to work - so instead, she asks for the universe, and then will not back down from her demands to reasonable conditions. She,is to be pitied for calling me sick and perverse in my desires, she is much sicker in her greed and more perverse in her sense of "justice". <br />
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I rarely speak so plainly and without consideration for what others think, but this night, I am not holding back. I do not know the man who is divorcing my lady, so I cannot speak of him personally - but from everything I have heard and seen, he to is being unfair, and perverse in his sense of justice.<br />
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Both of these former spouses of my lady and i have done this to themselves, by being selfish, self-centered, and taking us, tgrslady and I, for granted. Our feelings, desires, and needs have been subsumed for too long. Both of us gave our spouses years of faithfulness and devotion, and got little affection or pleasure in return. Our needs were seldom, if ever important to them.<br />
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And so to you in the EP World, our friends, fans and all others who read these comments, we are taking tonight to proclaim our independence from these people we are still "legally" married to. We are setting of, my lady and I, on a new adventure, with a new life of love together. My beloved tgrsldy and i are going on together for the rest of our lives and we really do not give one small turd for what others think - especially our "spouses". <br />
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Let those who have ears to hear, listen. Your spouse, fiance, or lover - however you think of them, - is a very precious possession, one you need to treasure above,self and above all consideration for wealth or security. treasure those you love, and hold them close. Judge them on how they are reflected in the mirror of yourself IF you must judge at all. For in the reflection of the mirror you see the truth...it takes two to make a relationship, and it takes two to rip it to shreds.<br />
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WE WIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
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I love you, fair tgrsldyr!!!!!!!!! We WILL get through this and be together...for all time!!!<br />
IKILYBIMY !!!