My 34 year old brother just remarried for the second time last november. When we first met Brandy 2 1/2 yrs ago, we all loved her, including my mom. We saw how much more happier he was than the last wife. He neglected to tell us until the end of his 2 yr first marriage how bad it was. So things were just great. Then we lost my 66yr old mother unexpectedly September 2009. All five of us (her children) still deal with the grief. and Brandy was there for my brother and family during that terrible time. But two years ago my best friend of 35yrs asked me what I thought of Brandy. At that time, I said she was great. My friend thought there was something not right about her. I blew it off. Then immediately after my mom died things started to change. She became very controling with things and giving her opinions when it wasn't warranted. Then my younger sister, who was my best friend, stopped hanging around me for months and latched on to Brandy. Me and my husband weren't invited over to my brother's house as much anymore either. My younger sister and i also had a fight in the summer and didn't speak for two months. Brandy constantly had my sister over and never me. The favoritism was showing and it was causing sibling wars. Then my sister's mother in law commented to me that she too lost the relationship with my sister when Brandy came into the picture. Brandy also befriended my sister's boss, and hangs out with her and my sisters other friends, even without my sister there. My sister didnt have a problem with it, but i felt it was weird. Like Jim Carey "Cable Guy" weird. Finally, a week before the wedding.my brother pushed me to tell him why i seemed not to like brandy so I finally told him by email. Bad timing, and i regret answering him, but I gave him answers and he didn't like them and now he hasn't spoken to me since the wedding (3 months ago). Same with Brandy who was upset about the email. Also, my younger sister, who Brandy seems to have poisoned. So I sent brandy an invitation to sit down one on one with me and talk about the email and put closure on it. First she told me off, then agreed to sit down with me. That was a month ago and im still waiting to here from her. The more I think about it the more I dislike her. She's ruined my family and acts like she's Mrs. Social Butterfly and does nothing wrong. Do I just move on in my life with my husband and kids and forget my brother, younger sister and brandy?