Shysmall In Cape Town

I am a cute 37 year old bi guy with a "5" **** and have always been incredibly shy about my size. I always see younger guys at the gym with soft dicks that are literally my size when hard! It freaks me out and what makes it worse is that I am bi/gay and in the gay world so much emphasis is placed on the size of a man's ****. Just becuase i am small doesn't make me less of a man! I am so sick and tired of feeling like an alien with guys who can't accept me for who am and not what's in my jocks. I feel like a friggin alien all the way out here in Cape Town South Africa, with no one to share my experiences. I just wanna find someone who I can feel comfortable with physically and not have to worry about size.Someone who is the same size or doesn't give a damn. It's pretty darn lonely...and I have so much to give.
shysmall shysmall 46-50, M 63 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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You sound perfect. Love your size. Friend me if you want to talk

Friend me if you want. I'm a small **** guy too, we can chat about that and other stuff.

Five inches is not small; statistically it's in the average range. Too many men watch **** and think an "average" **** is seven inches or larger. Not true. As for size when soft, some men are growers and some showers. Chances are that a guy who is five inches soft ends up not that much bigger when hard.

I love to suck on small one there the best.

I was in Cape Town not so long ago couple months back god I wish I had seen this then I would have loved you and your not so little ****, what a ptiy xx

I'm around the same size and struggle with the way I feel about my penis as well even though my bedroom experiences have always been good. Never had complaints but still wish I had a big old **** (I know it feels more masculine but really it shouldn't matter that much besides I have a magic tongue)

Don't worry about size so much. I have been with guys who were on the small side and I always fantasized about a guy with a really big ****. Well, I finally met the guy. He was not a giant by any means but his **** was easily the biggest I'd actually had the privilege of getting my hands on. But it was really too much. I could barely take him all in. When he insisted that I deepthroat him (I'm totally submissive and do what I'm told) it gagged me. I mean I literally had tears running down my face. And when he took me from behind it was almost more than I could handle. Now, having had the experience, I can honestly say that I would much rather be with a man like you. You're perfect!

Wow man. You still have a ****. I would love to give it all the attention it wants.

If you spend enough time at naked beaches, clubs, bars and the likes, you'll see the real average.

I'm bi, too, and 5.5 ... I don't feel bad about it at all. I've tried big dicks, but my mouth is kind of tiny, so it's not pleasant. I'd prefer smaller anyday!

i dont know how u looking like but in white underwear ur bulge is great. dont think about your length

I know how you feel, I'm on the "short end" also, but I also lack the kind of girth you enjoy. The up side is I find it easier to top my partners anally (after a bit of 69ing!)

Dude enjoy the size show it off, even if men smile because its smaller they still will hook up. Being small is hot show it off

It looks like a nice tidy bulge in your briefs and id love to feel it through those sexy undies, size is irrelevant its the person that matters but you do look kinda cute 😉 xx

My **** is only 4.5 to 5" hard.

Please add me as a friend

I also think it looks cute and sexy in white briefs :-) they're my favourite

You shouldn't worry, size isn't everything, you can take beauty from a tiny flower or a grand oak, learn to be comfortable with what you have, 6 inches is the average so you're not far behind and there are men out there who only have 2 or 3 inches but the can still enjoy themselves, I am a bi male and I've seen a lot of different shapes and sizes and had pleasure with them all so don't worry about what others may think and just make the most of what you have. I certainly wouldn't have a problem enjoying myself with it and bringing you enjoyment too. Good luck

hi im looking for a chap to model my collection of school blazers, if u are interested let me know

I thought statistically 5in is quite average - not small. Your avatar looks so hot. Please add.

Take a look at mine... it's not big, but I still like it!

Why someone who is the same size or doesn't give a damn? I have a larger than average **** and my wife and I both prefer the "Sport" model. Guys with 5" get so much harder than I do and we both love sucking a guy that size. My wife likes getting ****** by both sizes, but she rarely sucks my **** for more than a couple of minutes because it's uncomfortable.

i want to hold and suck your nice buldge yumm i know it would choke me same size as mine

You sound like a great guy and Cape Town is such an awesome place! Been on holiday there many times. Wouldn't worry if I were you and those guys at the gym probably got theirs from your famous Groote Schuur Hospital's plastic surgery department anyway! Let's just say they didn't ask for a car when they turned 18. Feel free to send me a private message anytime.

you look realy hot to me and size is no assurance of a good **** a man who cares or tries hard and enjoys it enough to try and make sure his partner does the same is much better hope you find "the one"

I cannot thank you all enough for such amazing and positive comments! Since joining I have learned to well...accept what I have and try to enjoy the fact that I am smaller and a little different. It still doesn't stop the wishing and the longing to have a bigger **** though ..especially when i get a glimpse of my some guy or my friends naked, but I have come a long way, and all you guys rock! Thanks so much my friends!!!

I'm small too, only 4 inches erect but I've had several long term partners in my life. Not all gay men are size queens. Now that I'm older it doesn't bother me as much but of course I'm a chronic *********** and I can satisfy myself very well solo. But, I'm looking for a **** buddy here in my county in Northern California which has proved difficult. came up with a total of 8 men in this county and after checking, 7 were unavailable and 1 was not appealing to me. So, I'm continuing edging daily and enjoying it much. Good luck to you, your **** is very appealing in the pics and I'm sure you'll find someone somewhere in South Africa.

Actually, lately I'm 4.5 X 4.5 erect with a fantastic large head that's very sensitive but none of it matters as I've become so very solosexual no one could please me. I'm going to marry my hand when it's legal.

I really appreciate your honesty. But i will say, this made me a kind of aroused. You seem like a good guy, and not everyone needs an eleven inch ****. Some like them mouthsized. =^]
You're alright man. A lot would like you just the way you are, sexy and perfectly packaged.

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I'm impressed that you go uncovered in the gym. I wish I was that brave... I won't even use a gym because I am too self-conscious about my size!

I'm bi and also the same size as you. Would love to chat and trade photos. I let go of size concerns. I'm happier now and seek for mental/emotional connection to get a huge turn on. Big is nice to play with but our size is more a fun size. Have fun and enjoy it!