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i have a small penis and i am so embarrassed by it. 

i am married, but that does not help.  my wife is kind and tries to make me feel good, but i know that she thinks i am small.

i won't change in the gym and i hate to be naked in front of even my wife.

how can i accept this and feel better?

georgesmith2008 georgesmith2008 36-40 73 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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My wife is also supportive she puts up with me trying to penetrant but too small and falling out alot.She never says anything, but is still a male ego letdown.

If your wife is willing to try other guys and have you as her cuckold husband to stand by and watch or even cleanup during and afterwards, the two of you might find and entirely new world of pleasure.

I also have a teenie weenie. I am lucky though because my wife thinks my teenie weenie, while not long, is plenty for her because she said it gets very hard and is big around. I was talking to her today and I told her my teenie weenie was too small. She told me that when she ****** a guy with a 10" ****, although his **** was very big, it did not get very hard, so it was not as good as she expected. Although, my wife did **** him for about 2 years, so it must have been good.
When I was younger, under 55, I used to have a normal sized ****, about 7" hard, 5" soft. Then my **** started to shrink as I aged. Now I have a teenie weenie that is 2" soft anf 3" hard. I still love my teenie weenie but my wife has very little interest in it now. I do feel some humiliation when my wife and I go to our nude beach and I see people, especially women, looking at my teenie weenie while they smirk and laugh. Most of the time they look away when I catch them laughing at my teenie weenie.
Although I do feel good and relaxed after everyone has seen my teenie weenie. For me, I believe acceptance of my teenie weenie came when after everyone had seen my teenie weenie had their fun and then it was not an issue anymore.

Hold on there. Plenty of women are looking for a good man. By that I mean strong character, integrity, and love. The other factors weigh in as any do. Attraction: both sexual and mental, etc. But people cheat because of other issues. Not because of penis size. Please be kind to yourself, get into some community MENS groups that teach men how to be good men. THAT is what is attractive. THAT is what women (GOOD women) fall in love with. Yes, there will be challenges and possible sacrifices with men who have a smaller penis, BUT intimacy, connection and passion for ones commitment will trump life's challenges. Work on you being the best. Get support from other GOOD men and your life will change and these issues won't even be on your radar anymore. Life will be about important things and you will have/find a PARTNER to share it with. Look up mankind project and you'll start learning about what real men are all about. Good luck and keep walking the path!

SORRY YOU FEEL THAT WAY, 'RAT RACE' ...SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE REALLY 'UNDERHUNG'..? OTHERWISE, WHY SO HOSTIL???...ENJOY YOUR LITTLE 'THINH', I'M HAPPY FOR YOU.....

So many of you guys are unhappy with your lack of endowment...the sooner you come to terms with being 'below average' in the male size dept, the happier the rest of your life will become. Instead of hiding the fact that you are under-endowed, you should allow your female 'friends', co-workers, buddies & bros. to know the truth; that you just don't 'measure-up' in the '**** dept.'...You are what is referred to as a 'beta' male, [or in cruder terms a 'smalldick']...It's not your fault, it's just the way 'nature' made you ! However competing for sex with an 'alpha' man will usually end badly...That's just the way life is. [of course there are exceptions; some women actually prefer 'small' men...all the more reason to come-clean about your 'tiny' size...You may be one of the lucky ones who finds a one of these rare women!...For the rest of you,[my fellow under-hung 'brothers'] get used to enjoying your natural place among men & in your heart of hearts, you know where that is,,,the bottom!

Sorry you feel that way, obviously I'm in the bottom 10% & I'm not speaking for you 'lucky' 90% who can [ and prob. do satisfy a woman.] I only speak for myself ...My penis size is way-below-average, [under 4 inches]..so I have a valid right to my 'misery', as well as every right to express it, remember to reply with authenticity, support, and respect,. That should cover myself & the other beta fellows on this site who feel as I do...even if they dare not express it...

I am in the same boat! Glad I found this site to read and hopefully connect with others that feel like I do! I am married and my wife has never once complained, but that doesn't take the feeling away I have about myself. Women do not understand just like the whole list that we don't understand about them.

I can't believe you guys. Just keep lying to yourselves, if it makes you feel better. The old saying's,'it's not what you've got, it's how you use it' was made-up by some one who never had sex with a well hung guy! Often, when a woman really loves a man, she will want to show her love by making him feel better about himself. It's perfectly understandable. In truth in our society, men are most often judged by their penis size, esp. by 'other' men! Right or wrong, fellows look-up to well hung men. Lets face it, you rarely see a ***** movie or read an erotic story where the man has a small penis. They are usually described as 'large', 'huge', 'massive',etc. & usually described as more than 6 inches, usually between 7 all the way to hard-to-believe 10 to 12 inches!...There are just so many unhappy men with small endowment,[ & a great deal of unhappy women, as well]. The sooner a man comes to terms with his lack of endowment, the happier he & those around him will be. It is really important for young men to realize their 'problem' & come to terms with it at an early age, before it ruins their lives!...[may I recommend you check-out the many, many web. pages of SIZE MATTERS, under that listing or PENIS SIZE MATTERS these pages will tell you the truth...BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! Believe it or not, they TELL THE TRUTH!!!!!!!! Thank you for letting me 'vent'

Well said

"Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect" Is that how you show your support & respect???? I'd like to see what you would say if you had less than 4 inches! It might be quite different...I'm not writing for the average fellow, but the very-below-average on,[such as myself]...The 90% of you 'men' who fall into average can disregard my feelings...[I have a hunch the smaller guys agree with a lot of what I write}

I totally understand where your coming from. I'm 5.5 inch wit 4.7inch girth. I'm physically disabled and fully wheelchair bound. I had years of trying to get a nice girl. Only had 3 partners before my current partner of 10 years. All the previous 3 girls were all cruel about my size as i'm only 2 inches when soft. My current partner has always been supprtive. She also wrks as a urology nurse. She tells me she's seen 100's of penises in her work and big penise are more a myth than anything. The biggest flaccid penis she ever saw was 5 inches. She also tells me that she's never seenanysize difference between ethnic groups. I'm still insecure but I've realised it can take over your life far to easily. It almost destroyed my self esteem and got close to suicide because I allowed it to make me that sad. So please just try to accept what you've got. You get shallow men and women who are cruel but there not worth ruining your life over.

It is so true that this obsession can take over your life! I currently have problems with it. Fully erect I am about 4.5 inches. My ex tells me that its not how big it is but how you use it. My biggest fear is that my future wife or girlfriend will cheat on me or laugh at me because of it. It consumes my mind and world. I hate myself when I look in the mirror. I read online on WebMD that I fall within the "average" length. This helps but still I cant shake it. Honestly, Im terrified about not being able to please women.

go to the SIZE MATTERS web pages & learn the truth! All this size doesn't matter stuff is bull..& the sooner you come to terms with the truth, the happier you will be in the long run!

"Please reply with authenticity, support, and respect" Calling me an 'idiot' is how you respond? Very manly of you! By the way it's not my website,[I just happen to like it & like to pass it on to truly little guys, [under 5 inches].If you are lucky & have a normal sized ****, why do you follow a subject designed for under-sized fellows, anyway? I wish you all the best!

Hold on there. Plenty of women are looking for a good man. By that I mean strong character, integrity, and love. The other factors weigh in as any do. Attraction: both sexual and mental, etc. But people cheat because of other issues. Not because of penis size. Please be kind to yourself, get into some community MENS groups that teach men how to be good men. THAT is what is attractive. THAT is what women (GOOD women) fall in love with. Yes, there will be challenges and possible sacrifices with men who have a smaller penis, BUT intimacy, connection and passion for ones commitment will trump life's challenges. Work on you being the best. Get support from other GOOD men and your life will change and these issues won't even be on your radar anymore. Life will be about important things and you will have/find a PARTNER to share it with. Look up mankind project and you'll start learning about what real men are all about. Good luck and keep walking the path!

That's really sad. It's too much to go into here but I will say the best sex of my life was probably 4-4.5" hard. idk the size is a guess. I miss the 4" **** like crazy but the guy was pretty tough to get along with.
The worst (nicest guy ever though) was as thick as my wrist n long as my foot. Not too sure about real measurements.
The big one was too much. I could only take him drunk. I still smile when I think of the person and miss him tons but I'm so relieved the sex is over.
I wish so much I could find that perfect combo. A happy confident man with a smaller ****.

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I feel your pain. I'm a black guy with a small member (quadruple whammy). I'm trying to learn to accept myself as the creator made me.

You can't do anything about the size of your penis except to learn to live with it!! If somebody doesn't like it too bad it's your penis and if they don't like it don't look!! I used to be embarrassed by the size of my penis but finally realized who cares!! I really don't care who sees it. In fact the more chances I get to show it off the better I feel! A good way to show it off is on a crowded beach just wrap a towel around yourself and take off your swim trunks then "accidentally" let the towel fall off while putting on your underwear. Feels funny the first few times but after a while you get used to it being seen!

Sounds like you've learned that the proper way for a 'beta' fellow to live is to make sure everyone knows what he is. I only hope you've also learned to show the proper respect to the alpha males who should receive it from we 'small-dicks'!

If you really want to enlarge your penis, I recommend you do this exercise program. It is easy and simple. Before using this tool I was 5 inches long, I was embarrassed when I had to urinate in public restrooms, when after my judo practice I had to take a bath in shared showers and my colleagues made jokes about the size of my penis. After using this program for 2 months without surgery, without pain, without pills, exercise only, my life has changed. My penis is 7 inches long, my duration making love with my wife has increased from a deplorable 5 minutes to 30 minutes, and my wife is very grateful. If you have the same problem I had, you need to read this review:

http://realpenisadvantagestory.blogspot.com

Enjoy it

I've long gotten over my wife seeing my little ****. 20+ years of marriage will do that to you. While most women would prefer average or better, a small **** isn't a deal killer for most of them.

I too married a kind woman that would never say anything bad about my little penis so I know where you're coming from. At this point in my life, I have come to desire small penis humiliation. In this situation, her kindness isn't getting it done but that's okay too.

Be good with your hands and mouth, it is easy to learn to get a woman off that way. As for worrying about your ****, there's basically nothing you can do about it. You might as well enjoy what you have. As my wife once told me, even a finger feels good so unless your hung smaller than a finger, it feels good when you're inside her.

I have a friend that used to joke about being too small and whether or not e really was, I have no idea. He claims that on his wedding night, she ******** off, laid back and said, "Here it is, all for you baby". He said he ******** off and said, "here you go too babe". He said she looked at it and smirked and said, "Who do you think you're going to please with that little thing?" His answer was, "ME!"

Lets face it; real-men have 'big' or at least decent sized dicks..you know it & she knows it, regardless of what she says!

Hold on there. Plenty of women are looking for a good man. By that I mean strong character, integrity, and love. The other factors weigh in as any do. Attraction: both sexual and mental, etc. But people cheat because of other issues. Not because of penis size. Please be kind to yourself, get into some community MENS groups that teach men how to be good men. THAT is what is attractive. THAT is what women (GOOD women) fall in love with. Yes, there will be challenges and possible sacrifices with men who have a smaller penis, BUT intimacy, connection and passion for ones commitment will trump life's challenges. Work on you being the best. Get support from other GOOD men and your life will change and these issues won't even be on your radar anymore. Life will be about important things and you will have/find a PARTNER to share it with. Look up mankind project and you'll start learning about what real men are all about. Good luck and keep walking the path!

I know it and she knows I know it. One night while drunk, she told me how disappointed she was the first time we ******. She won't admit it sober but I know how she feels.

Years ago I too hid at a gym not wanting to be seen. I am micro and was conscious of my size. I had to shave because of the pubic hair pattern and placement I had. That made me even more conscious and kept me from locker rooms. Now I am comfortable with being micro and shaved. It is how I am and now I can be naked in locker rooms and do not mind. I realized it does not define me as a man and that I just happen to be very micro in size and had to shave. I no longer mind if another sees or knows for it is the way I am.

I am backwards on this. As long as the gym has anonymous guys in the locker room, I don't worry about my small ****. But if I see a buddy in the locker room, or friends changing clothes at my house for a thing; then I get real shy and secretive. Got my self-and-other-esteem wrapped around my tiny ****,

Again, I hope you are showing the proper respect to your well-hung friends! You know in your heart, they deserve it !

Good for you, but I hope you show respect to the well-hung alpha males who deserve it!

**** you littletinytim19!
Big dicks deserve respect? Sounds like you are the big ****! Mozt guys out there with big dicks are big dicks...

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I started dating a girl and after two months she left me because she says my penis is to small. How rude. Now I have a big complex and lonely.

If you really want to enlarge your penis, I recommend you do this exercise program. It is easy and simple. Before using this tool I was 5 inches long, I was embarrassed when I had to urinate in public restrooms, when after my judo practice I had to take a bath in shared showers and my colleagues made jokes about the size of my penis. After using this program for 2 months without surgery, without pain, without pills, exercise only, my life has changed. My penis is 7 inches long, my duration making love with my wife has increased from a deplorable 5 minutes to 30 minutes, and my wife is very grateful. If you have the same problem I had, you need to read this review:

http://realpenisadvantagestory.blogspot.com

Enjoy it

I won't say that I wouldn't love having a big ****** -- hell or even an average one -- but I honestly love having a teenie weenie, for what its worth (which isn't much haha). My wife and I have a lot of fun with it. She gets to **** well hung studs, and I get to watch! And even participate sometimes, tee hee... but seriously, this lifestyle isn't for everyone. You will just have to find your own way. Me, I accept my smallness and just go with it.

5 and a half. When I was thinner 6 tops. Also pretty thin although the thickness has increased over the years. I was embarrassed about it for years. Only in the last couple of years have I accepted it. It's not going to win any contests but does a decent job pleasing my wife. I know she'd like it a little longer and much thicker but I make up for it with my mouth and fingers. Fortunately for me and her, I love going down on her. I can spend hours down there if she lets me! What it boils down to is that I make her *** with my **** maybe 2-3 times per year. I make her *** with larger toys often and always make her *** with my mouth and fingers. I'd love for her to try out a well hung guy that's also good at sex. Her bf before me was known for having a huge tool but he was also a huge tool himself and was a super selfish lover. She tells me that if we put his **** on me with my bedroom skills, that she'd walk with a permanent limp :) Anyways, you get over it after a while. It's not like we did something to deserve this. I now proudly own my small ******.

It'll get better, when I was your age I was always embarrassed about my little willie. Now I enjoy the shock value like when I go to the YMCA I always shower and dry off and dress slowly so everyone has ample opportunity to see it. I even get half hard which makes my dickhead look so disproportionate to my little inch and a halfer.

Hi, my advice is for you to face the truth. All men are created differently and so are their penises. Before I used to have an anxiety over my penis, by the way I'm about 6 inches long and 4.8 inches in girth. I used to be so anxious because when it goes flat it is about 3.3 to 3.5 inches but it could also shrink up to EVEN 2 inches or maybe even smaller and the girth thinner. I think many of you guys right here could imagine the horror of being a 2 inch bearer if your more than 20 years of age. To add up most of the women out there would prefer a slightly big penis. But no matter how much we may think about it the thing between your legs is the only penis that you have. So it all boils down to how much you accept the truth. Always remember that respect for yourself is more important to women and to the majority of society rather than how much you are worth and how big you are down there.

My ex boyfriend had a small penis and he was very self conscious about it. I really felt sorry for him and was always trying to reassure him that it wasn't important. It probably can be compared to how women feel if they have small breasts or are unattractive. Luckily for me I've been fairly blessed in all departments. Anyhow, about 7 months after we split up, I met my ex by chance on a night out and that led to a 7 hour sex marathon. I swear to god it was like being with a different guy. His penis was thicker and longer I'm not kidding! Either that or I got tighter and smaller! No really, he told me he had done something - not surgical - but he didn't go into detail. But the thing that struck me the most was his increased confidence and stamina. In that respect he was like a different guy. Before when his penis was smaller he lacked so much confidence in the bedroom and the sex was always quite quick. But 'after' it's like his self esteem shot through the roof and he become very confident in the bedroom as well as much more stamina. Also it’s the first time he ever made me sore which is a nice feeling. Honestly, I tell some of my girlfriends about this and they just look at me like I'm crazy.

and you are crazy...girlfriends, really?

I feel your pain dude...5 and half fully erect, we are a cursed bunch.

According to all the information I've been reading.(because I too feel very small compared to <br />
what I see). The average size penis Flaccid is 3 to 3.5 inches, the average erect penis.<br />
is 5 inches. Think about this . Your penis bothers you and may be brought to your attention by your partner, there are lots and lots of men out there who are the same size. The greeks ;portrayed all of their statues with a 3 incher, this was seen as attractive (this is documented) If you were much larger you were consider freakish or have a dubious character . These are different times. The **** Industry has promoted large penis as being sexually virile and most women and men in recent generations are buying into this. There should be **** with men who are in good Physical shape and attractive faces and watch how attitudes would change.<br />
I'm feeling much better about myself. I have know problem walking around in a locker room at the gym. I still however get rejected especially from guys who appear to smart and secure.<br />
This is when it hurts I just keep picking myself up and appreciate what I have because i know I'm normal.. Most men don't walk around naked so you are not seeing them and they are not communicating it.

hey guy,
Trust yourself and maintain the hope that you will meet other trusting men. They are rare, but out there.

I found it very peaceful and enjoyable to only use a strap on to please my wife. Neither of us miss the "natural act". I am not built for it and is much better now without the frustration and disappointment. We have a much better love life and relationship without the act and I should have stopped long before I did. I accept being micro. We enjoy kidding around about it rather than wishing things were different. I am no longer embarrassed in a locker room and have actually enjoyed skinny dipping with others accepting the truth that I am one of the smallest. ( My doctor told me my length and girth combination is the smallest and he recommended the strap on prosthesis) I know I did not develop right and only had a late, very short and abrupt puberty. On the Doctor Tanner scale of puberty development I only reached the first one and a half stages out of five stages of development. It is what it is. I cannot change it. For some reason I am like a boy on the onset of puberty rather than an adult male. I stopped fighting it , wishing it could be different. Life has been much better for the past few years accepting the truth and forgetting about the "natural act". It is what it is.

I like my tiny penis about 2' soft If you want to make your wife happy, you might try wearing a strap-on. I did that with my last GF and she loved it..

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I have always been embarrassed by the size of my penis from when I was very young and sent to boarding school. Because we had to shower together I saw that I wasn't endowed as well as the other boys and so I used to try and hide myself. I was also in the swimming team and we had to wear these tight speedos so wher other boys had a nice bump in the swimming trunks I just had a tiny bump. That was worse because then there were girls about as well. I think that's why I have always had low self esteem. In the army later on I dreaded the showers and anyone seeing me. It has always been like that. I am married now with two amazing children but in our early years during arguments my wife would comment on the size of my penis. Then one always hears woman saying that "size does matter". I get really depressed sometimes but it is something one can't speak to other people about because of the stigma.

Yea men I read u storie and whit have similar case but the thing is the I'm 20<br />
I'm scare to go out there and ask a girl to go aout

Yea men I read u storie and whit have similar case but the thing is the I'm 20<br />
I'm scare to go out there and ask a girl to go aout

Im 4.5 inches erect & wish i was bigger too