Lasalle - An Alter With No Idea. . .

Trayus' alter Lasalle recently surfaced, and much to our dismay has no idea he is an alter. . .

I fear I've made a bad first impression but more importantly. . .

It is up to Trayus and I to convince him he is an alter. . .

Oi. . .

Parsain Parsain
18-21, F
2 Responses May 5, 2010

How do you treat the alter?<br />
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Also, when we first got married one of Trayus alter's was none to kind to me, but eventually gave up trying to scare me away.<br />
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Also, right now your fiance's alters are more in control than he is, the more aware of the alters he becomes and the better he can communicate he can take that control from them. Their original purpose in existing is to help him, not harm him. And if he is the host, from what I've seen, the alters may fight giving up control but ultimately don't really seem to have a choice. Trayus' alters have started to listen to rules he sets out and things. Progress can be incredibly slow, or overwhelmingly fast. But it doesn't always have to be like this.

my fiance has an alter, he is aboriginal and he hates my fiance. he hurts me and he sleep with transexuals.<br />
but he doesnt know any of this.<br />
when i told my fiance he was disgusted and felt violated. he threw up and blacked out. then the alter came out and was very angry at me for telling him, his voice is different, his posture, his eyes, his skin tightens...everything changes.<br />
i feel traumatised but i am so in love with him and i know that the man i love is there.<br />
i feel scared, hurt, i nlove confused. i care for him more than anyone iv ever met but i dont know what toll it is goin to pay on me