A Typical Day in My LifeHi again,
I just thought I would share a little more about my husband and tell of a typical day in my life.
My husband is disabled from the military. I left my job to stay home with him. He is more stable with me here. We are each others best friend. We are always together and that's the way we like it.
Boy 6 years old, I will call Adam. Adam is usually the last one to go to sleep at night and the first to wake up in the morning. He woke this morning we had breakfast, went swimming, and ran some errands. The teens were out as well. The others were'nt as active as usual today. I saw my husband today for about 15 mins. He came out to pick out some things at the hardware store. The kids are now watching their shows with our niece who is 20 years, for hours now.
I can count on one hand the number of times I have fell asleep with my husbands in the past four years. The kids really love being out so any chance they get they take it. My husbands allows it. It makes life easier for him. He knows what is going on. They are just in the forfront. It takes a toll out of my husband with the others being out. So he is exhausted by 8 pm. This allows the kids to be out.
There have been times when the elders have been out for days and I hav'nt seen the kids. I miss them all when I hav'nt seen them for a day or so. I love them all and I am quite happy with the way things are. Considering where we came from years ago. Of course in a perfect world he would be the man I met. The one who swept me off my feet. I miss that, yes. Most marraiges don't stay happy go lucky and mushy, anyways. I do get tons of hugs and kisses each day. No matter who is out. They are just different types of affection depending who is out. I know for certain that I am loved beyond words. Do I long for adult companionship some days? Yes. I long for it some days , but all in all though it balances out.
I will write again soon. Take care and continuous healing.