Update On Fay

Fay has been out a few times since we came back from PA. She recently has come out to teach me sign language. You see, Fay is mute.

She wants me to learn sign so her and I can communicate without needing another inside to speak for her. We can write things down, but she really doesn't like that.

The other day, I asked her how she was feeling and she told me she was happy. She is excited to because her nephew and nieces are coming to visit.

I have seen a lot of progress from her. She holds shame and was always so sad. She just wanted to be left alone. For her to say she is happy brought tears to my eyes.

It is nice to finally get to know her and see what her personality is. She is good natured, kind, and caring. She is also poetic and a very good writer. 

I look forward to watch her continued healing and to get to know her even more. 
xxxLisaxxx xxxLisaxxx
41-45, F
3 Responses Oct 14, 2012

My fiance has/had a blind alter. Has in terms of the mothering one was blind but when she integrated, she passed the blindness to the semidestructive one left. So it has been really interesting to have my spouse go from fine to blind in a second. We learned to just use touch for comfort. Good luck with signing :)

forgot to mention one thing



Do you have an American Sign Language book? If not, you may be able to find one at a thrift store for a few bucks, or on eBay

Pocket-Dictionary $3.99 + $2.99 shipping

A Basic Course in American Sign Language by Humphries $9.00 + FREE standard shipping

Thanks! I will have to look into that. = )