Should I Tell His Wife?I have all the evidence that my wife is still texting this guy. Over 2000 texts in the past 2 weeks. Should I let his wife know and show her the evidence? I don't want to hurt her like I am hurting - that would be very insensitive of me. The question is, would she want to know? Another question is, if I do it will she want a divorce and then my wife will leave me for him? I want my wife to stop and to choose me and stop the affair with him. Would showing his wife backfire on me?
Part 2 - the other man is a PE teacher at my kids school. Should I tell the school? I have a daughter in that school that he would be the teacher for next year, and I don't want him to be. Should I ask the school to make special accommodations for my daughter and tell them why - show them the evidence as well? Or should I just take my daughter out of that school?