Locking Pinkies Vs Holding Hands

I have really sweaty palms and I'm extremely self-conscious about it. I've never like holding hands with anyone due to that fact. Someone I used to be with wanted to hold hands with me but I wouldn't let him. He was sweet and didn't make a big deal out of it, but he still wanted a way of publicly displaying that we were together. So he suggested we lock pinkies instead. It was perfect since my fingers aren't the main source of the problem and it made us both very happy.
grobiegirl12 grobiegirl12
18-21, F
3 Responses Jan 15, 2013

That is sweet your guy thought up locking pinkies. I have sweaty palms too and I used to do the pinky only handhold with this one guy I was dating. I eventually married him.

I have always had this problem too. One thing that sometimes helps is a strong dose of vitamin B. I take four every morning and it gives good results but not always. You may also try antiperspirant on your hands.

Trust me in saying its a hormonal balance thing and if your that way about it go and see a DR and they will give you something to help. I have seen this before and they helped the lady, she is so much better now. Good luck

Thanks! I'll get it checked out eventually. It's on my list of things for which I need to see a medical professional.

from what I remember it was something so easy as to take a pill. go asap. It will help your self consciuos.