Girls Who Are In A Long Distance Relationship And Making It Work...?

So I am in a distance relationship for a year and a half. Every time my bf leaves I get very sad and feel even empty sometimes (the first week especially). I get the feeling that my sister and my other friends just can't understand this situation and I thought it would be great to have a girl around my age (I am 23) who is in the same situation so we can talk and support each other.
I don't have a girl best friend so I really just need someone who can understand and become my friend and who feels the same way.
I am just looking for girls because I think we can understand each other craziness better :P
And I think it would be great to have another girl who I can help out when things get hard and who can does the same for me :)
thisgirl2121 thisgirl2121
22-25, F
5 Responses Feb 9, 2013

I met this guy on Zoosk because I wanted to meet some guy, so bad. I met guys on there before. Everytime, I met a guy on there, they were who said they were, but I was never attracted to them, so it would hurt their feelings, when I turned them away. I met guys on there and I didn't like them because they were to needy and showed their muscles all the time and I don't like it. I would travel to see these guys and they would do anything to do me, but I wouldn't let them Do that because I knew they were not good guys. They had sexy ladies on their wall and I don't approve of it. One guy had a sexy Angel on their back half fire and half Heaven, so I don't like that all. I don't prove a **** at all. I had an exboyfriend into ****, so I hate it. Then I was searching on Zoosk met another guy online. We knew each other three years, but getting intimate with him ruined it all. Then I met the guy I am talking to right now. He lives twenty four hours away from me. We started talking this year on Thanksgiving time. I was so thankful to hear his voice again. We talked about his ex girlfriend wanting money from his mom, but I didn't know he had a child with her because he didn't tell me because he didn't want to loose me and I said I don't want a man that has children because the drama and that is judgmental. We talked about his whole past. I told him my whole past too. We both have done drugs in the past. We both have drank in the past. He is seven years older than me. I don't want to tell you his whole life story. I have been with about five guys that were selling drugs or doing drugs and plus they were drinking and they were trouble makers too. The other three guys liked to drink. When I met the out of the state guy he was drinking and he was really embarrassed about it. He accepted me being in a resource room. I got teased all my life for my learning disability. People would make fun of the way I looked and talked, but this out of state is crazy for me. I did send him naughty pictures and he did the same, but we were dating for a long time. We feel in love way before we started getting sexual with each other, so thankful I didn't blow it. He is everything that I want and I am every thing he wants too. He says nice things about me. The exgirlfriend's mom said they were married and I talked to Herr, but she never answered me, but they had a child together. The brother lied to me. The brother said I hope he treats you better than he treated my sister. He told me right away that he lived with her for seven years, so I didn't believe them. She ran off yo be with her family and I think she met other guys too. When he found put I was with Buddy Harris then he was chasing me. He called my grandma to reach me. He sent me sweet messages, but I got deleted controlling Buddy too. He told me I miss your voice, so I listen to your voice messages because I miss you. He is a sweet guy. I was not ready to settle down with him because it was to fast, so I dated other guys, but they were cheaters and liars, but that is what I get. I was with an abusive man and he talked me through it. I helped him get over his ex girlfriend because I just listened to him and gave him advice like he did for me. He wants to be more than friends. We use to read bible verses over the phone and that turned me on. He wanted to learn all about my faith in God and that turned me on too. He turns me on because I know he would be a good father because he has a son. He tells me sweet things everyday. I went to visit him, but we didn't have much time together. I think I am done here. Leave comments for me

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Hi I'm 19 and I am a freshmen in college. I left my boyfriend at home and even though its only 7 hours it feels like I might as well be in China. I've only really seen him a couple times since fall. I don't have any friends who I feel comfortable discussing it with. I always feel like saying anything is just being ungrateful that I have someone in my life. I know that empty feeling well. I'd love to talk:)

I am in a long distance relationship for 3 years now. We get to see each other twice in a year. It is sometimes hard but he is definitely worth it.
Will be closing this distance next year :))