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I Have A Weird Phobia

Phobia Number 1: Cotton Balls, Q-tips And The Like... Phobia Number 2?

By: Bex84
Written on January 4th, 2011
By: Bex84
Age: 26-30
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  • AlpacasAreBadass

    Never, ever, EVER watch Caroline. Don't ask why, just don't. Don't look up a synopsis. Just trust me on this, okay?

    Feb 3
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  • Bex84

    Midnight Marshmallow:



    Well the job part isn't too bad. I usually do business casual work, so I can create a wardrobe that suits it without buttons. Since the stronger part of the phobia is loose buttons, or buttons not on anything at all I do okay.



    I really have no idea where or why it started. Most people just assume I'm an odd ball, and they're probably right. There are some, with over active and morbid imaginations and a desperate need to understand the things that seem unreasonable who have suggested 'possible' scenarios, such as choking on a button, abused by someone wearing buttons (abuse is the most common one people suggest) etc - however, I really think those are unlikely. Of course there was likely some event that occurred that cause it and it's quite likely whatever did happen, was resulting around a situation involving loose buttons rather than those on someones clothing as that is the strongest part of the phobia. I'll probably never know, unless they come up with some form of memory retrieval more accurate than hypnosis, I'm okay with that. :)

    Feb 3, 2011
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  • midnightmarshmallow

    Wow. I bet it's hard to avoid jobs with buttons on the uniform, especially if it's a job you want! If you don't mind me asking, do you have any idea how this started? I'm kind of fascinated by the phobias of everyday objects, because you've been surrounded by them your whole life, from infancy onwards.

    Feb 3, 2011
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  • Bex84

    MidnightMarshmallow,

    I adjusted quickly because I had no choice. I do not wear buttons, nor do I hug, cuddle or sit near people who have them on their clothing. I don't do jobs with uniforms requiring that employees wear buttons. But for the most part I am okay in a room with people wearing buttons, I just avoid being near or touching them, and if my anxiety is high, I just do everything I can not to look. It was one of those things that I had to learn to deal with by distracting myself when necessary because it is such a common item in life.

    Feb 1, 2011
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  • midnightmarshmallow

    Out of curiosity, just how much does your fear of buttons impact your life? The only real phobia I have is a fear of fish, but I'm not confronted with live fish as much as I think someone would be confronted with buttons. How do you handle being surrounded by your fear so often?

    Jan 31, 2011
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  • Jamie1976

    Odd...I'm gonna bring a big 'ol bag of buttons with me next time I come to visit! ;-p

    Jan 9, 2011
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