Hurt

I am feeling so hurt, I really don't know how much more I can take of this anymore. One day me and my husband try and sort things out, the next we are arguing again. All because he has fallen in love with someone that he chatted to on EP and now I feel like my life is over. He calls her his "best friend", his beautiful angel, darling, sweetheart and tells her he loves her morning, noon and night. He has sent over 3000 emails to this woman. This woman who has ruined my life, this woman who my husband has never met in real life as she lives in Australia and we live in the UK.

I just feel 2nd best now as she is still getting the love and affection that I crave. Even though my husband has told me he would stop all contact with her - he hasn't, but he says he doesn't want to leave me or the children.

I actually hate this woman - whoever she is for ruining my 16 year marriage and for ruining the rest of my life.

I really don't think I can compete with her anymore, I'm getting tired of fighting and trying to win my husband back, perhaps I should just let go so she can continue having the intimate chats they have both been having for the past 6 months. So ozpenny and quietguy40 - you are welcome to each other as I can't fight for my husband anymore when you won't leave each alone and you now leave me broken hearted. I hope you both feel good about yourselves now.
shysecret2012 shysecret2012
41-45, F
1 Response Jan 15, 2013

I think personally that you're right, you should leave...You're only hurting yourself by staying, and he obviously is pretty far gone. It's not your fault at all, and he's being stupid giving up his wife for someone he has never met. The whole thing is just ridiculous, and you deserve better. There are better people out there. Or you could always find a way to cut off his communication with her....use parental controls to block the websites they talk on, change his password so he can't get into it, or go on your phone service's website and block her number. With luck, things will go back to normal.