He Doesn' Think He's a Alcoholic..
I've been with my boyfriend for years, and he's always drank and smoked pot, but it's gotten increasingly worse. He has all the signs of an alcoholic but I don't know how to break it to him. He's failed college classes because of his drinking, he's been fired from 3 jobs because of his drinking, we've broken up before because of his drinking and I'm scared to ask him to go to an AA meeting because I don't want to make him mad. He is currently jobless because he was fired for not showing up to work (he went out drinking the night before), he had done this several times to his workplace before. So since he needed money I told him to return some expensive jewelry he had bought me since I knew he was struggling financially, and so he did. Later that week he went to a pool tournament in a bar (drank) and then went to a st**p club with his friends afterwards. He swears up and done that he didn't spend any money and that his friends bought him all his drinks, I don't believe him though. Whenever I talk to him about it or express that I am hurt he gets in a huge angry uproar, yells and cusses at me to the point I am in tears and can't talk, then I tell him I don't want to be with him and he gets all nice and sweet again....It's so confusing!!!! Also, he is on a pool team, he is a great pool pla