He Said He Would Quit...

I recently had a talk with my boyfriend about his drinking, told him it was really effecting us. So, he said he would quit, swore up and down. That night I came home and he had cleaned the whole house. He had cleaned everything and made me dinner, it was so nice!!!! But, he had been drinking, I was wondering what was really going on, I was then mad but kept my mouth shut since he worked his butt off cleaning. He was also slurring his words, endlessly talking, reeked of whiskey and so drunk, so unattractive...Some things are more important to me then a clean house and dinner. Well he quit for less then a day, wow....I'm going to dump his a**...

Gambit4 Gambit4
22-25, F
1 Response Feb 28, 2009

Addicts have tricks and you fell for one of them. He knew exactly how to manipulate you. The drinking will NOT stop unless HE makes the decision to and the first step is going into alcoholics anonymous for help. Dumping him might be a solution for YOU but it's not one for him. You do what you think is best for you and what you want for yourself and it's up to HIM to do the same for himself.