I wrote a story earlier today about my boyfriend whom is an alcoholic. I did not get any comments which i kinda wanted. At least words of wisdom... My story which explains some of my situation is titled"Why do i need advice" which may explain why no one commented. So what i did was go ahead and tell him I was not coming back until i had seen a change in him. Finding a job and stopping the drinking. Really stopping, I told him i know it will be hard and he needs help though. I told him i was not giving up but he got negative in a way. Then also said hes not going to give up on us. I guess I'm scared he's going to find someone else and not fix his behavior. He said he has lost better relationships in the past.Then says if i thought he would be this way forever, he was going to go sober anyway.. never said how though. He was mad at me for doing it the way i did, not in person. I was just afraid of seeing the hurt in person. It hurts bad enough. So any words of wisdom??