Well...I stayed and I am still in the same boat! Sitting here, he is passed out drunk AGAIN! AS USUAL! WTF is wrong with me? I let him fool me once again. I think I am scared. I have a toddler, I don't want her to be without a father but at this point I think this relationship is bad for us both. I need to get out! I have to find the strength. I am on step 6 of 7 of this divorce. fed up...again but this time friends, I am going to find a way out!!!!!!!!!!!
36-40, F
2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

Leave. Go to parent's house, sister, brother, whatever. Support him from a distance. Your husband need s a lesson in tough love that only you can give. It may be as hard on you as it is on him. That's what my wife did to me over 25 years ago. It rocked my world (in a bad way) as it jolted me into the reality of the situation. HE has to do this, but you need to draw the line and then stick to it. You have nothing to lose. I hope the best for you, both as a partner and as a person.

Hi , I totally get u cause I'm going through a very similar situation . Did anything change yet ??