Our First Open Marriage Experience

Well, my husband is 29 and I am 26 years old. We've been married for 5 years and we have a 4 year old daughter. When we met, we were both very horny ALL the time. After we had the baby, as soon as my milk in my breasts went away, I lost a lot of sexual desire; not for him, but just in general. We still had sex and fooled around more than most married couples we knew (oral 4 times a week, sex 3 times a week) but it was usually missionary and doggy style and I wasn't comfortable enough with my post-baby body to be on top. We are both overweight as well, and I was embarassed by how out of shape I had become and how laborious my breathing became if I was on top.

He knows that I ********** to the thought of "catching" him with another woman, or just him being with another woman in general. We had talked about having a 3 some (f/f/m) for a while but I never told him to find someone. About a month ago he posted an ad on craigslist and we didn't get spam, but an actual girl replying to his message. After trading pictures, I told him that if I was going to be comfortable with the 3 some I would have to chat with her via text. We started texting and hit if off immensely! She is plus sized as well, sarcastic and fun like I am. She came over for the first time about 2 weeks ago and we all had a very passionate 3 some. I felt my sexuality coming back full force... She and my husband made me feel so sexy and beautiful and I was so turned on to watch him touch her and have sex with her. Going into it I still wasn't 100% but after about 5 minutes I knew it was going to be wonderful!

Recently, the girl brought up that she thought she may lose some more inhibitions if she spent some time with he and i separately. Again, I was apprehensive because a 3 some is different... I am there, I can stop it if I feel wary... but I agreed anyway. He went to her place one night when I was sleeping (and had my permission) and when he came home, told me where he had been. I was so turned on. I don't understand why this makes me so horny and happy, but I loved listening to him recap what he had done. I wound up going to her place without my husband the next night and we had a lot of fun! We intend to keep the 3somes going and also doing the separate sexcapades. We are very happy, and I have gotten my sexuality and horniness back.
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2 Responses Jul 30, 2010

wonderful.....I'd love to talk.

Good for you ! If you are all happy with the situation, that's all that matters.