My Wife Wants An Open Marriage But..
My wife and I have fantasized for years about sex with a third person both male and female. she was always a little hesitant about the MMF scenario. I warmed her to the idea over time. She had gotten friendly with a man via Facebook. One day she announced that she was ready and wanted to experience sex with two men. To feel more comfortable, she then announced that she wanted a one on one with him first. I granted this as a one time deal. it was a little awkward for them and it required a bit of a struggle between us for it to happen. She has encouraged me to find a woman to sleep with. And it has been fun eyeing others and telling her about it. She is now trying to set me up with her single girlfriend (whom we both know well) for unlimited sex while she is gone at a conference. With this she expects and wants a rematch with her guy which was supposed to be one time (i have never met him). I initially was excited by the idea. But I realized I really am not ready for one on one open marriage scenarios. And her friend isn't whom I would pick to sleep with. I suggested that we go slow. I want to meet her guy and get to know him and have a ********* with him joining us. The same with her girlfriend, I would be comfortable all of us in the same room/bed. Basically I am comfortable with a ********* but not with her sleeping with him alone. We are deeply in love yet this topic has caused us great pain. I know I would be comfortable in a three way. Perhaps over time I will feel more comfortable to allow one on ones. Isn't this one of the primary rules, to respect one another and not push someone beyond their comfort zone.