So my wife had her first experience with another man outside our marriage last night. And I would have to say I was confused how I felt about the situation. A lot of things were going through my mind. Mostly if she will be safe going to this mans house. But she knew this guy for a while and that made me feel a little better. But again I didn't want her to get hurt or disrespected or anything like that. After she came home she told me everything from start to finish. I wanted to hear about her whole experience with him just to figure out if I really will be ok with an open relationship or not. But after she told me everything I wasn't mad or jealous and it was a nice night for her. So I felt really good that we did this and hope we can continue with this path throughout our marriage. We will see how she feels once I have my first date.
jschooley24 jschooley24
26-30, M
3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

add me too plsss!!!

My husband felt the same way when I had my first hook-up. But he's much better now. I also have been so busy that I don't have time to meet with anyone now anyway. But I know the option is out there, should I ever find myself in a "situation".

Just for curiosity, are you hppymama's husband?

Yea I am.