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I Have An Undiagnosed Child

Mystery Baby

By: luckypickle
Written on June 2nd, 2009
Age: 26-30
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  • luckypickle

    He's lost a bit of weight but we have him eating some now.



    Thank you.

    Aug 4, 2010
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  • Whym

    How is your little guy now luckypickle? This story hit so close to home as I had a struggle with my little one when he was born also. My guy is autistic and his issues were more cognitive than phsycial, although all of his fine and gross motor skills were way way way behind. We had endless MRI's and CT's and spinal taps...blood work and assessment after assessment, all for zero diagnosis. I fought for years to get someone to listen and it was so frustrating.



    Sounds to me like you've done a wonderful job, finding answers for your boy. Keep it up and you WILL be able to help me eventually...even if it's just by loving him to bits. :)

    Aug 4, 2010
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  • luckypickle

    *hugs*

    Jan 17, 2010
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  • luckypickle

    Well his urine is sometimes very strong...he has days that he goes 20+ hours without urinating..other days that he goes every hour. No change in diet or fluid intake..just random dehydration.

    Oct 22, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    I never thought about b-12. Thank you..I'll ask one of his doctors.



    *hugs*

    Oct 22, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    Thank you so much Jill. Give your son BIG hugs.

    Oct 22, 2009
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  • JillBloved

    after reading through all of this i am truly sad for you.. I wish I could just give you a hug. Your poor son! I could not imagine one of my little ones having to deal with so much at such a young age... And I thought my 2 year old having autism was stressful... My heart goes out to you love. I cannot imagine what it must be like not knowing what is wrong with your baby boy.. I will keep you in my thoughts and I truly hope nothing but the best for your son, and you too!

    Oct 21, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    Oops sorry..I forgot to tell you about his MRI..he was red from the belly button up after that one.

    Aug 29, 2009
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  • elvebrilith

    the only problem with EEG's is they only record your brainwaves... Sometimes they can find a tumor or misfunction in certain areas of your brain... Ultrasounds also can't be read correctly after the bones surrounding the brain have fully enclosed the brain... Uhm... Yeah, I think a cat scan or a ct scan would be best... But I'm sorry this situation really sucks... Maybe it will fix itself in time, but I dunno... ultrasounds can't read accurately through bone unless they opened up his skull - omg if they did that's gotta be scary!

    Aug 29, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    He had two ultrasounds on his brain and two EEGS. Thanks for the comments and help elve. He has seen a neurologist..and many other specialist as well.

    Aug 29, 2009
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  • elvebrilith

    And, oh yeah lol...



    The mineral oil coats the intestines, similar to the way pepto bismol does when your tummy aches! It actually coats AROUND the fecal matter itself and well...



    Well lubricated things tend to move around easier than non-lubricated things...



    Hang in there, honey!!! See the neurologist!



    :hugs:

    Aug 29, 2009
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  • elvebrilith

    Oh my! Well, I, personally believe laxatives aren't good... Apparently pointy ears are normal and correct themselves over the years... So far as the seizures, I don't really know... I had seizures until I was two and then they just stopped...



    Try giving the baby some mineral oil instead of all of those enemas and laxatives... A teaspoon a day should be more than enough, as a tablespoon a day is recommended daily dosage for a healthy adult!



    Some of those meds you listed cause constipation in the elderly... but basically you don't want your kid to be on too many different laxatives or you will force the peristaltic movement (which is the wave-like movement of the intestines) and have bloody stools and such, the poo should be eased out, not forced... The urge to go is increased, whether or not there's actually anything there to be pushed out!



    Was any type of brain scan done, or just bloodwork? You don't have to have a big head to have a tumor, unfortunately :(



    Seizures are caused by the brain, it sounds like a hypothalamus disorder... I hope they get that checked out... The hypothalamus deals with electrolytes, normal bodily functions, hormone release, etc... Which may be why your baby's feet are so much bigger than his actual body, he's having a hard time going poo, his calcium/mag levels are low, he's having seizures... But I'm not a doctor, what would I know?



    He needs to see a neurologist, all of these things are clear signs that there's something going on in the brain, most likely the hypothalamus - especially it controls the homeostatic processes of the body! Eating, pooping, sleeping, etc...



    NEUROLOGIST, SWEETY!

    Aug 29, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    I'm so sorry that happened to you and your family. *hugs* Stay strong my friend.

    Aug 22, 2009
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  • lifesucks1985

    i cant imagine what you are going through. i hope you find the answers you are looking for soon

    Jul 20, 2009
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  • Readerblackchic

    I wish the best for you and your child. (hugs times 10)!!!!

    Jun 27, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    update. if my little one takes 3 capfuls (three times the adult dose) of mira-lax he can actually stool by himself. when he went without an enema i was never so happy to see a s**ty diaper in my life!! but i'm not getting too excited as he was on mira-lax before and his body got used to it. counting down the days to his appt.

    thank you everyone for listening.

    Jun 20, 2009
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  • amy76jo

    You are not alone in the world of having a undiagnosed child. I have been dealing with the undiagnosed situation with my daughter for 12 years. Though we still have a no diagnosis, still have hope of understanding her condition one day. Rather than piece by piece we want to see the whole picture. You may want to look for a metabolic geneticist, seeing different doctors will give others an oppertunity to use there experience to help find a diagnosis.



    If you have seen the website Syndromes Without A Name, you should visit it. We have a e-mail community of families just like you. www.undiagnosed-usa.org

    Jun 17, 2009
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  • Mello

    Oh dear. You must be beside yourself. *hugs*



    I hope the medical profession can help!

    Jun 5, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    Thank you very much for listening. Today he went for a gastrograffin enema and we found out that even with his daily enemas his colon was still full of stool. So nows it's daily enemas, twice the adult dose of mira-lax daily, and a future trip to a pediatri GI and a geneticist. I appretiate the support I've found here. Hugs to darcyqueen.

    Jun 5, 2009
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  • luckypickle

    Unfortunatly, or fortunatly, he lacks the trade mark large head of down syndrome. And he has been tested for Di George syndrome and he parathyroid checked out good. Thanks for the support.



    Actually his neurologist was worried about his head size at first untill he measured it. He has a LOT of curly dark blond hair and it makes his head look large.

    Jun 3, 2009
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