It's All I Ever Think About

My husband calls me a "horn dog". I want sex everyday, all the time. Unfortunately, he doesn't. It started about 2 years ago, when I turned the dreaded "40". One day I woke up and really wanted sex. The next day I woke up and really wanted sex. I've always liked sex, and before I got married I definitely had a lot more sex. But things slowed down quite a bit after we said "I do". I was ok with that for a while.

We fight about sex a lot. He's always too tired or it's too soon since the last time. Sex is the only thing we ever fight about. For so long, I dealt with it. But now, I'm having a very hard time doing that. I crave sex, want sex, all the time. Sometimes I wish I could just turn it off.

purpleriz purpleriz
51-55, F
12 Responses Mar 5, 2009

Can I just say how much I hate you! lol.... Nah....I don't ...I'm really glad for you...glad someone is getting all the sex I should be getting. As sad as the world can be...I seriously am happy to hear the good stories of togetherness...it should be the norm..but it's more like a dream ....I wish you both continued happiness for us all!

i accepted the fact my wife has low sex drive. i found several friends on line that share the same problem. one gal is only 6 houses away from me we share our fantasies and turm on our web cams and ********** together. its a major turn on.

:) Yes!

Purple - I am almost GREEN with envy - but not quite - can't give up my purple either!! LOL<br />
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Love you LL!

Here is an update for this story, just like I am trying to do with all my other stories...<br />
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Hubby and I have worked out our problems...not only is our sex life better, but my sex drive is almost quenched...not quite, but he is really working on it. We sat down and had a nice long, open talk and dealt with a lot of the underlying issues...<br />
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Do you know how wonderful and fulfilling it is for me to be desired and wanted by my husband? It is an amazing feeling!!!

I wouldn't try to advise you on this. It is so difficult and there are no easy answers.

Automom is right...<br />
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<i>It totally is hell when you are with someone that doesn't share your level of desire. Really you have three choices: learn to deal with it, cheat, or divorce him. It really is that simple. No one should be miserable.</i> <br />
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In my case, I learned to deal with it and while things aren't quite as hot or often as I'd like, she tries and we have a great time and super love.

A craving! Dealing with it. That is hard. Very hard.

thats right autimom, especially when it comes to sex

It totally is hell when you are with someone that doesn't share your level of desire. Really you have three choices: learn to deal with it, cheat, or divorce him. It really is that simple. No one should be miserable.

damn its like that, pobrecita

I know what U mean !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!