I work at the YMCA as a fitness coach and Zumba Fitness Instructor. I get along grea with the members. This one member, Am---a , we would share stories of exercise routines that we would go through. Barbell, Dumbbell, bands in which order to do them in for better muscle contraction and pre exhaust, HIIT training, etc. I also gave her some nutrition tips that i thought were fun facts. Then here friend cam over from the functional training room, bumped right in the middle of our conversation and said " she had lost a lot of wait to nothang out with guys like you." Cognitive dissonance i thought i was being nice, i ran upstairs to the gynastics area since i knew it was closed off. Then i cried my eyes out. why do women hate me so much?