Me? Where Is My Me?

It's not only my mood. Everything changes. My opinion uses to change every day. I hate it. I don't feel like there's a "Me". There are just  a thousand opinions that don't fit together, and it makes me sad, not to be able to know who you are. I want to have my opinion on things and stuff, but it changes so often. I can't say things like "I like purple things" or so.. it just changes no matter how I feel about it. sometimes I keep wondering a long time "What is my real me? Is it for it or against it? Is there a real me?" I don't understand this all..
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3 Responses May 9, 2007

Hi, <br />
Over the past couple of years i have been a bit moody. Up and down and can change within a split second. Literally. It seems to have got worse since i have been stressed, but its ridiculous. One second i can conquer the world, but within minutes I feel llike everyone is against me and nothing is right in my life. I have decided to move to spain but I cant go while I know that one day ill be ok and the next i wont. Can anyone help? (ps..im 21 if that makes a difference)

i feel like you sometimes MsIndievidual. somedays i wake up feeling like i can do anything and part way through the day it just flips (variety of triggers) and i am stuck and feel like my future is hopeless. <br />
i am working through a dialectical behaviour therapy workbook and it has already helped me, help myself have better days, or at least more good days. :)

You know, life is like a journey toward a destination. If we were already there we would have no life. I think you may not be as far off as you think. I feel, or should I say, my theory so far is life is all about finding out who you really are or who you really want to be or both. The fact that you aren't solid in your immediate reality is a sign of inner growth. Many times as life goes on we have little experiences and moments that add up over time leading us to answers to past questions and solved problems. Many times I have come to understanding of these things after the moments add up. You know moment leading to moment, step by step. Pieces of the puzzle are only placed one at a time, especially if it is only you putting it together. Be patient with yourself sweety. We are here for you.