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I Still Wet The Bed

Im 18 ad i still wet the ed pretty regularly, probably about 2-3 times a week
Sometimes less sometimes more
Ive been doing it ever since i was a kid
Ive tried everything from strict diets to pills
I have now started using the bed wetting bed mats
No one knows that i still wet the bed except my doctor and im still afraid that if i stay over somewhere that it might happen
I feel like im going to b doing it for the rest of my life which scares me because im afraid that i wont be able to live my life fully
Meet a nice man etc
Kika13 Kika13 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 26, 2012

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You shouldn’t let a small thing like that interfere with your life. There are so many discreet products on the market today it makes life easier for bedwetters. Bed mats are good but still a chance of having cold wet sheets the best solution is goodnites or underjams they seem to work out the best. As far as relationships go he we like you for you not what you wear.

Have you ever tried doing it on purpose

dont be ashamed of your bedwetting. us men love it.
have you ever thought of using a diaper of some sort

Hey kika I've been wetting the bed for about 11 years now. I won't lie to you I've dealt with a couple of break-ups because of it. However, looking back on it the bedwetting really saved me from being involved with some really shallow people. I've been dating the same girl for almost 2 years and she is completely accepting of the bedwetting. I also wear diapers to bed to keep the sheets dry and she is supportive of that too. Anyone worth while will be accepting of your situation, don't worry about the judgemental people and just be honest with potential boyfriends, dismiss the ones who judge and you'll find happiness.

You have to know that a lot of nice man can at least accept it easily as a little inconvenient.

To me, it is a must that a girl do it. I found it soooo cute and lovely!!!

I worried about this for many years with bedwetting and daytime accidents whether or not I would meet a woman who could accept me (especially since I tended to use diapers for management of the issue). I was very surprised to find out that there are many people who are more worried about you having a good personality and being caring for your significant other than are worried about whether or not you may have minor medical issues.



You will find someone eventually, I wish you the best of luck.

Thanks guys

I guess since i love who i am

I shouldnt hide it from anyone or let it get me down

Its just something that makes me unique

Stay strong. Don't let it get you down. And I'm sure there are plenty of really nice guys out there that can accept a bed wetter!

I've been doing this since I was 22.

would you like to add me to your circle

you will meet a nice man have wet the and met lovely girls they take the bed wetting if the love you, you just make sure you have a plastic sheet on your mattress try wearing nappies

If there is any foundation to your fears, then they are likely exaggerated. You are not -- I repeat -- not alone in this world.



Now, I'm not going to try to tell you how to find the right guy. Being a straight guy myself, I'm not qualified. What I can tell you, though, is that if I were a singly guy, and found out that a girl I found interesting was a bedwetter, I would simply tell her that I am, too, and that I think it's sexy, which is the truth.



However, I will also let you know that I have come to embrace this fact about myself, and not hide it, at least not in my personal sphere (in my professional sphere, it is nobody's damned business).



I realize that this is difficult, but I suspect the fix here is to just be honest about it, and, if you can, embrace who you are, without apology. If bedwetting is a deal killer for one guy, then, like it or not, that wasn't the guy for you anyway . . . but I swear to you, and I mean this sincerely, there are guys out there for whom this will seal the deal, rather than kill it.



Be yourself, be unafraid, and you will be fine.

Has your doctor discovered the reason why it happens? Perhaps you can take steps to diminish it in some ways. Don't automatically assume it will happen forever. You are not alone, you could meet a young man in a similar situation. I've heard of others here on EP who have and live life the way they want. It is never too late! Good luck!

You may be surprised. Many nice men are similarly afflicted. They are keeping it a secret as well.