Not That It Matters...

We weren't very close anyhow. One time he told the principal on me at school, it was 1972, I was 11 and he was 9. I don't think I ever recovered from that moment. He has twin sons that I never have met, one has dark hair and brown eyes like him, and the other has blonde hair and blue eyes like me. Their picture looks just like me and their father together when we were kids. I laugh sometimes to myself that one day I'll meet my nephews, and they'll wonder who I am, "I'm your long lost uncle, boys". We look alike, like family, especially the blond one. I'm sure they've never even heard my name...

AlternateSource AlternateSource
46-50, M
9 Responses Feb 17, 2010

My daughter is similar to that, all her planets are in 3 signs. Mine is in two groups, 2,3,4 and 6,7. It's been a long time since I've pondered these things...

Did some reading, Pl / 2nd lends itself to transformation through loss...<br />
-amongst a lot of other things ;)

18 degrees second house, if you use a different system, it could end up in the third house<br />
Interesting observation, would you elaborate???

I found him on facebook and sent him a note...<br />
I'll wait and see what happens...

The only thing I can think of AS is that if you noticed the resemblance, then he did too. Perhaps it's made him think a bit. Who knows..... perhaps just a card saying hello would do without expectations of a reply. A first step?

Some family 'riffs' are hard to atone for, especially after a lot of time has passed

I _could_ be pretty bad, but I'm not ;)

I don't suppose it is too late. All I know is that they live in Indiana. There was a family spat a while back, that I wasn't involved in, but my brother trashed my name all over again to the family. I heard about it through the grapevine. In my imagination, the interchange between me and my nephews will take place at my Mothers funeral. Yeah, I have a weird imagination...

Sorry to hear that Alt.......... and I thought my family was estranged....<br />
We at least email occasionally and see each other every few years.