As of Now

Now Im not being hit, kicked, puched, thrown, bitten ,hair being pulled out or forced to have sex. but it wasnt to long ago that all of this was my life and in some weird way I miss him. All he does is make me upset and all I do is miss the abuse because now thats what I know I can call it.
halfgone halfgone
26-30, F
2 Responses Aug 7, 2007

All I can say is you are blessed to have gotten away and their are so many more men out there and so much more to life than sitting up under someone who brings you down and hurts you. We always try to separate the abuser from the abuse. I am still doing that and still making excuses but real talk you might be better off than me in the long run. Just be proud that you stood up for yourself and start living now really living for you. i am so jealous and i am sure a lot of other women are too.

If a friend came to you telling you a story just like your own, what would say to her? What would you advise?