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My 'so-called' Friends...

A 'friend' uses you to accomplish a means to an end..

When you cry, they callously brush it aside and yet expect you to sympathise when things arent goin right with them..

Where are they when you need help? They are doin their own things until its time to call you to their side..

Still, through it all, you have remained their friend. But when will this end? Hands stretched out expecting, always with a friendly smile on their face. Yet, when you look at them, there's no trace of deceit inside.
They swear they are ur friends n somehow make you believe it..

But reality has set in.

The smiling eyes, the caring words, were they ever true?

You've always been there for them...but..
WHERE WERE THEY IN UR DARKEST HOUR??

The lil' sacrifices, the words of encouragement you gave, are overlooked when its all about them..

Hurt and Anger builds up. What else would you expect?

A change for the better, is that too much to ask???
starlit11 starlit11 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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Sounds like they don't respect you. Might be kind of a hard proposition, but withdraw all tangible help (money, rides, free places to crash, whatever), and see if they remain your friend.

Having friend's that are only around when they need something is no friendship at all.

Yes. I agree. I'm not friends with them anymore. And instead now have made some new good friends that are always there...thru thick n thin. :)

some are friends for saying only u cant find them in ur needs but u will find true frnds who will be there in both the darkest and brightest hour with you

yes...such friends that you described are rare gems!
I thought my these 'friends' were the bestest, but now that i realise, it was just an illusion... Just like i wrote in one confession, they were very close to me initially...and now we barely speak to each other..

yes i think i have read that confession