So My Ldr Failed 2 Months Premature.
In July last year I met an absolutely beautiful Italian girl with a stunning personality and a love for life, who was on a working holiday in New Zealand. I hit it off with this girl and things were wonderful, when she left we kept in contact.
We were spending insane amounts of time and money keeping in contact (phone calls, video calls) and made plans for to return to New Zealand and live together, she would often talk of having children and getting married in 2009. Her re-arrival date was supposed to be in December '08.
In August this year the contact stopped abruptly - from hot to cold, everything to nothing. In my mind I already knew what happened, though she wouldn't admit it and just plain ignored everything I wrote to her.
She later admitted she was beginning to fall in love with some stud in her home country she'd secretly liked for years, who'd approached her multiple times.
Now this I can't blame her for - I felt betrayed, especially as she had been too cowardly to tell me and left me in limbo for weeks. What I can blame her for is how she played me over the weeks to come. Constantly giving me forms of hope - the new relationship wasn't working out, the guy's an absolute jerk, you're such such a great guy, etc. All the while still avoiding me, for the most part.
This got out of control just last week when she told me straight up that she'd had it with him and wanted to return here to be with me in December (original ETA). She set up a video call, took off her clothes and told me nothing had changed and she'd made a huge mistake. I told her I didn't believe her, but I'd give her another chance to prove herself. Well, that was 5 days ago. For the past 2 days she's suddenly "disappeared" again.
Trick me once, shame on you.
Trick me twice, shame on me...