I Have Been Cheated On
after 12 years of marriage to my wife i guess things had become a little dull and perhaps i was not paying her enough attention, heres what happened. given that my wife is 11 years younger than me she would go into town for drinks with her friends and i had no problem with this, I had no problem with her dressing in short skirts or low cut tops, from the day i met her she dressed this way and I quite liked having some sexy young lady on my arm. Things changed gradually and eventually after a hard days work i would stay in and put my feet up while she would go out with female work collegues.
My wife never even owned a mobile phone and I thought it a little odd when sudddenly she wanted one. I thought of the benefits of being able to text her n stuff so never gave her sudden need for one to much thought, but started to notice she was going to the toilet more often and taking longer, instead of sending the kids to the local shop she would go herself, She would not come to bed but stay up late to watch TV. I used to work overtime every saturday and i believed she loooked after the kids. At one point the oldest mentioned in all innocence her mum had been out for ages. I dint know how to approach the subject of my lack of trust in her but it all came out after we had a rare night out together.
She asked why my mood was foul so I let her have it "I think youare having an affair" no denial, just an admission, she met a guy one friday night and aranged to meet him knowing i was at work the following day. 3 times she met him close to his home he got into the car and she drove to a nearby wooded area where on each of the 3 occasions she performed oral sex on him to completion. She swears he never entered her saying the time he tried he was too close to *******. We are still together but is it possible to put something like this behind us, I cant get the image of a guy in our car with his trousers around his ankles being pleasured by my wife.
My wife never even owned a mobile phone and I thought it a little odd when sudddenly she wanted one. I thought of the benefits of being able to text her n stuff so never gave her sudden need for one to much thought, but started to notice she was going to the toilet more often and taking longer, instead of sending the kids to the local shop she would go herself, She would not come to bed but stay up late to watch TV. I used to work overtime every saturday and i believed she loooked after the kids. At one point the oldest mentioned in all innocence her mum had been out for ages. I dint know how to approach the subject of my lack of trust in her but it all came out after we had a rare night out together.
She asked why my mood was foul so I let her have it "I think youare having an affair" no denial, just an admission, she met a guy one friday night and aranged to meet him knowing i was at work the following day. 3 times she met him close to his home he got into the car and she drove to a nearby wooded area where on each of the 3 occasions she performed oral sex on him to completion. She swears he never entered her saying the time he tried he was too close to *******. We are still together but is it possible to put something like this behind us, I cant get the image of a guy in our car with his trousers around his ankles being pleasured by my wife.