Cheated And Don´t Know What To Do

I have been cheated don´t know to what extent. I found a letter in which my husband told a co-worker he loves her, I confronted him, he said he didn´t write it and denies it everytime it comes up and swears never being unfaithful, but I got into his facebook page and I found a search of that co-workers' name, and I don´t know why he search her. I came with him and my sons to another country because he started a new job, so leaving has become hard, he tells me if you want to leave do it, because he knows I don´t have money because I am a stay at home mom, and tells me that he loves me but if I leave I can´t take my kids with me. I know that if I get the money I could leave but he has always being a great father and husband, it was really hard for me to find out about that he loved someone else, because I wonder when does he have time to have an affair, he is always at home, he gets out early to take the kids to soccer practice, every event at school he is there. I don´t know if I should let it pass and focus on the good since I am not exactly sure what did happened or just make an effort and leave. I have been married for 11 years.
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31-35, F
Nov 26, 2012