One year ago he told me he was in love with someone else.. My whole world fell out from under me. I can't even describe the devastation. I wanted to die. After many fights and many ups and downs he said he would accept full responsibility for what happened and that he wanted to stay with me and the kids. Then a few weeks ago, after a year of trying to heal I found his phone and found out he had contacted her. Now of course he says its over with them. I am so sad. I don't know anything anymore. He broke my heart. I can't speak to him. I can not look at him. I am so lost...
saidanddone saidanddone
36-40, F
1 Response Dec 7, 2012

The reality is that most men cheat, almost ALL would cheat given opportunity. It is sad that our society has given people the expectation of fidelity, or maybe it is just sad that people cant do it. Accept that most men will cheat, accept that most women will cheat. The good news is that you are better at it! Your two options in my opinion are a) get even and b) just leave, you can do better anyways. I would be very surprised if a stiff rodgering from a fresh weiner didnt make you feel like 100 bucks.