No Idea Where To Go From HereMy husband cheated on me. Had a full on life with someone else. I got over it twice and moved on. The problem is the second time it didn't end when he said it did.
My husbands job transfers him. Last time I didn't go with he moved in with another girl, I learned my lesson.
My story is about the 2nd time. I found out, I gave him an ultimatum. He chose me. He has always chosen me.This is our 10th year of marriage.
I choose to get past the infidelity. He was transferred I go first to get everything settled hoping to find a home and make the move easier. I even had 2 jobs. He gets up here and I find out he's still "leading her on".3 months or more after I thought it was over. She lived with him till the day he moved. She went this last Christmas to his mothers with her kids for a week. They spent Thanksgiving together in their ****** trailer park, my sister was there. I feel betrayed by everyone, especially my sister. I can't trust him at his mothers they condone his cheating, obviously. I can't even trust my own sister. He has been home for a month. I hurt everyday. I feel ill. I just don't know what to do, or how to move on. To him it's like it never happened and it doesn't even matter.
The worst part? I still love him.
concernedspouse 31-35 2 Responses 0 Jan 25, 2013