Just dealt with second divorce. My first marriage failed because he hid the fact that he had drinking habit and second one due to his mother's harassing nature and he hid that he was not potent. Can you please guide me that how to identify a person. People hid facts and also their real nature and behaviour, which are revealed after marriage. It is very difficult to identify a person from inside. I am in my 30's and I know that life is long but I dont have the courage to get married again anytime in my life. I am depressed. Who will believe my innocence now, who will trust me that there was no fault of mine ??